Hi, just a little confused at the moment with this one girl and wondered if I could get any advice on how to close to get a day 1 with her.

Anyway, I got her number etc through facebook and have been taking it steady on there. We've been talking perhaps a week (leaving gaps where I don't talk to her etc).

Every time we talk we talk we seem to have great connection, we have interesting, light hearted fun conversation and I even did some work on making her imagine things (like us doing things, I forgot what it's called but basically us making cakes and shopping together like couples do. I read it somewhere and think it's on that video clip on this forum).

Anyway, it all goes great and then when I try and close she usually tries to avoid it which isn't good. I haven't asked her over and over and I've been very cool about the situation because I want to close the deal and mess it up. I do genuinely think something is there or I wouldn't bother carrying this on.

Do I need to DHV myself or something? I really am not sure what to do next. I've been cool, playful, kept interesting conversation, sexual tension. Everything that I thought would work and it seemingly did until I tried to close the day 1.

Help?

Maybe you've ended up in the friend zone , and for this it considers you just for friend activities. But it may be not your case.

How exactly she tries to avoid you?

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could be a few things bro.

i. depending on the age/situation some girls are afraid to meet up when they know you can sexually escalate. they pretty much know what they're in for. sometimes they do this to make sure you're really Really Interested, and not just going to hit it and quit it.

ii. she could be friend zoning you. a few 'get to know you' phone calls is fine, expected with some girls, but when you fall into calling her everyday just to hear about her period, you're in trouble.

iii. she could be legitimately busy. last year i was in really good deep rapport with this HB9-10 but she was busy every time i asked her to hang out. i thought she was just blowing me off, but when we finally hooked up after school was over i found out she just had an overprotective aunt and was legit busy.

advice is to keep playing it cool and keep the invites casual. some neat alternatives that have worked well for me are:

i. asking her what she's doing x (night), if she's busy then tell her not to worry about it, if she says 'nothing' then say 'okay! amazing you're coming over and we're hibernating (Canadian winter here!) and watching movies!' - girls love to be told what to do. this has been very successful for me.

ii. casually inviting her in passing to things/errands that you're going to do. make it no big deal.