So, I ve had this HB a few months in a awkward situation (made out with her while I was still with my ex), that made her freak out and ignore me, so I had to do a freeze out for a couple of months.

The freeeze out worked and we are back on track like before meaning we go out in a group and hang around like friends. I am not with my ex anymore so I would like to close her again, this time fully


I decided to negg her constantly and play tottaly cool with her, even ignoring her at the same time being very friendly and flirty with everyone else in the group.

Currently she is quite cold towards me also and I am not sure if this tactic is working. Generally she is a classic HB party chick, with no relationship experience and gets hit by guys constantly in the clubs....
Any advice?

ps
I know she noticed a lot of change in me both on surface and inside as I just started applying some gaming tricks (clothes, alpha behaviour,...)

If she's already being cold to you and you already know her fairly well, why on earth would you want to neg her. You're probably just coming across as nasty (especially considering that you're not in her good books currently). Stop your little 'act' and be your friendly self again, re-gain her trust. She can probably see right through you currently and is starting to dislike you more and more by the day.

[quote="Visionxxxxxx"]If she's already being cold to you and you already know her fairly well, why on earth would you want to neg her. You're probably just coming across as nasty (especially considering that you're not in her good books currently). Stop your little 'act' and be your friendly self again, re-gain her trust. She can probably see right through you currently and is starting to dislike you more and more by the day.[/quote]

Actually I ve been negging her and treating like little brat sister ever since we met a long time ago.

The thing is that before a freeze out (and after our little affair) I was acting very needy and thad led me to the situation where she ignored me totally for couple of months. So, after she finally regained the trust and started to invite me for the parties I decided to change my behaviour towards her also (as I changed my behaviour generally) and stop being needy. Instead I started to act alpha, very social towards everyone else (including girls when she could see) and slightly ignoring her. As she was still keeping some the distance I simply decided this tactic to try to confuse her and make her come to me first and not another way around.

Should i change the tactic and try to be more friendly to her again? Would not that come up as needy again? I definately do not want to be needy towards anyone anymore...She gets hit by needy guys daily


Anyway, how does the seduction process at this stage, after a freeze out look like?
Do I have to trigger attraction again and than turn to rapport building? Or just skip to comfort?
If attraction is where I restart again, that is what I am trying to accomplish currently with this behaviour...

just one additional thing...

This is tottaly crappy situation

It seems like we are both in some sort of freeze out towards each other that is leading nowhere. She has no more IOI towards me whatsoever like she did before. She is even ignoring me, as I am her when we are out.

How to break this dead end?

Is it possible that she is just trying to keep me as an orbiter?. Someone to hang out with as a friend? I have no problem with that either, as she has a lot of female friends but I dont want to miss any if there is one...