Well in my instances with girls who are 6's and 7's, or 8's, 9's. I have learned by getting the girl talking, and using a comment like," Everyone likes me" that she has just said. I proceed to disqualify her, by stating in a joking manner and facial expressions that she has a huge ego. This one routine works on almost every girl, but you have to continue to dose her with c&f, and # closes almost always follow.

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i lust for jessica alba, but now since she is preggers. I am lusting for Nicole!!! It's New Year's Day. It was Ben Franklin who said, "Be always at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let each new year find you a better man."

Well You can change pretty much anything about yourself if you know the proper steps...

I'd recommend reading "Awaken the Giant Within" by Anthony Robbins first... Personally I consider this book the second most important book in my life (I'm relgious otherwise it'd be #1)

After that I'd read "Frogs to Princes" By Bantler and Grinder

This is the origional work on NLP written by it's "Founders"

Also I'd study the "Milton Model" which models Milton Erikssons technics as the founder of Hypnotheropy

And the Gestalt method which was created by Perlz

Those to are what I'd call the main building blocks for eliciting change through NLP...

The third model called "Family Theropy" is where we draw anchoring from, and most PUA's will find they already know most of the usefull info from this model...

So when you learn how to use a more full NLP tool box it can become much more powerfull... You can wire yourself up however you want so to speak.

Actually I was thinking of posting a how to in the confidence section on Reframing yourself so that you don't have to "fake it till you make it" so to speak... but through NLP actually adopt that frame as how you act insted of a trained habit like some try over the period of time...

If theres interest in that from the community let me know and I'll write it up when I have a bit of time.[/quote]


Wow... NLP sounds really serious. Are there any kind of videos you can buy to observe the technique or skill in action? Id like to learn more about it.

What that video says about eye direction is not always true. I recently made a video where I was talking about my life and I looked up and to the right as I was recounting something from my past. I did not know about the info in that video at the time, and I was telling the truth.

It definatly can be when used to a more full potential.

As far as videos I'm not sure I've never really looked for them... I do know that top NLP practitoner make ALOT of money for there theropy sessions so I'm not sure how likely it is to find videos of them just floating around freely... I saw awhile back footage of an Anthony Robbins theropy session where a Psycologist cald him out on NLP and sent him a patient he'd been working with for 7 years to try and cure her phobia of snakes... using NLP Tony did it in about 30 minutes.

Personally I've only used NLP in that type of capacity a couple time to help people who had serious problems and really needed help. For the most part I use NLP on myself.

If you get into it some and need some help or mentoring or whatever just message me too man. I'm up in Phoenix usually at least once a month.

Some people are calibrated the opposite way.

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Thats awsome man, I will do that. Let me know when your in Phoenix.

Yeah you don't want to make her feel a negative energy when she's around you.