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im a jr. in highschool. I've been learning a lot about PUA techniques and the most successful one I've use was The Cube. I've just gotten crazy responses like, "whoa, how the fuck did you do that?" and they're all jaw slacked. Earlier this year this one girl who was very cute/attractive was being somewhat flirty with me, but i wasn't as interested in her because I was going after another girl. With this other girl things started slow (until I used the cube) then she got extremely interested and it seemed her whole personally changed, meaning she was a lot more comfortable with me. The only problem was we weren't seeing each other much in person, besides a few parties where we were both drunk, but still acknowledge each other. Every time I text her, suggesting we should hang out, one of us are busy. We both agree we need to see each other in person a lot more, which obviously has been a struggle. Now it seems I'm losing interest in this girl. The girl that was flirting with me earlier this year lost interest in me and found another guy and they have "a thing". And for some reason I developed strong feelings for her (Making me "want" her) she's my type. Cute, a pure kind of person, but she knows how to have fun. By the time I found that out, it's too late. She's interested in a whole new person. I tried using the Cube on her, which again worked out great. But I know shes into another guy now, making her have a "nice" response to me, rather than being flirty in the past. I've fucked up, I've been wasting my time with one girl, when the real opportunity was in front of me. I missed out. I don't even know what to do anymore...any suggestions would be great....
Sounds like a case of oneitis, albeit recovering oneitis. My advice, as I'm sure everyone will agree, is to forget her, there's much better women out there. "Never make someone a priority to you if to them you are only an option". Just take what you have learned from the PUA world, take your game a step up, and apply it to all women but her, she will see your desirability and become attracted. But I'd still say forget the bitch, drown those feelings for her like a newborn puppy. Just focus on your inner self, obviously this is getting to you, replace your time texting her with spirituality or one of your interests. That's all I can really say