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Thanks for the example Crazy Jester!
So wait, that was a test? What are some ways I can past the "I don't hug." test when no one else is around?
Maybe try one of these strategies
1. "There is no way you don't hug at all. And if you really don't then that's weird and you should change that... starting now."
2.
"wait you don't hug at all or you just don't hug people you don't know very well"
She will give you a clearer picture of the situation with her answer.
Maybe she says people she doesn't know. Then you can say "well let me introduce myself and grab coffee with you some time so you can get to know me better. Now that I have been rejected I am strangely obsessed with getting this hug LOL"
Maybe she says she is scared of germs. I would probably let that weirdo go.
Maybe she says "really it's just that i can smell you from here"
There are a ton of things that could be going on and you won't have enough info to react well unless you ask.