Hey fellas, this chica and I have been bantering back and forth for a good two weeks over texts. The question of my virginity arose. I avoided it to build up suspense.

"I would tell u, but then I'd have to sleep with u."

(I've still got my V-card) I don't know if she's a virgin, but I suspect she isn't. Another relevant bit: I'm three years older than she, so it may seem weird to her if she's had sex before me.

Anyways, she's being really persistent, and I'm going to have to feed her an answer soon. My question to you guys: which answer gives me a better chance of getting closer to the f-close?

I'm temped to tell her I am because I've got a great way of doing it: "The secret police are rounding up all the virgins! Save me!"

I'm really digging this community and thanks for any input.

Alrite mate, love the use of the word banter there- i love banter

I'm pretty new to the game in general but from my past experiences I'd say that you should go with honesty in this situation. Don't make a huge joke out of it, like with the virginity police thing- or maybe make that joke and then say something along the lines of "I haven't found the right girl, that I want to lose it to". But don't make out that you haven't done anything with a girl, make it out as though you've done the 'lesser' sexual activities but through your own choice you haven't gone the full mile. < This is what I did before I lost my V-plates. It doesn't make you seem like a desperate virgin trying to lose it, rather it makes it seem like you're a respectable lad who hasn't made that decision yet.

BUT, it depends on age. I was 16-17 when I was using the "haven't found the right girl" excuse, the people that I told this to were also around the same age. It will most likely be different if you're older, you say you're 3 years older than the girl and I'm assuming the girl's atleast 16 so you being 19 I think you'd still be able to get away with the above.

At the end of the day though, it's your choice. Feel free to disregard what I say and do what YOU feel is right. Just don't go having sex with underage girls

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I am a virgin and I'm 23.
I fake it enough, as in I don't appear like a virgin most of the time. Hopefully it doesn't come up. This one time my drunk friends mentioned it to this girl I was making out with, that didn't help. The bastards.

I mean what girl wants to sleep with a virgin?
At the end of the day, they like the idea more than the act itself.
So don't believe what they say.

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when i was a teenager I had a girl i knew tell a girl that liked me i was a virgin and the girl said i dont care id fuck him anyway lol .next time if it comes up just banter that if shes nice you might let her guide your big horse in because shes such a virgin but that you charge $100 per hour.Id suspect entering is the part some virgins get wrong or copying the porn videos first time haha.

She wouldn't be interested in the question unless she wanted to fuck you.

Stop "bantering" and fucking MEET HER and FUCK.

If she asks again just make fun of her for hitting on you so shamelessly, tell her she's gonna have to wait to see, or whatever. Change the topic and move on.

Being a virgin is really not a big deal. There are millions of guys who go their entire lives fucking the handful of girls they ever get with really BADLY, never learn or try anything new, never make her cum, and suck.

There are plenty of virgins who pound the shit out their first girl really well the first time and don't look back.

My advice is to pick up, at the least, a copy of "Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms" by David Shade, so you are confident that when you do get down to it, you know what you're doing and can make her cum at least once before you penetrate, taking the pressure off yourself to perform the first time.

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Thanks for the help, guys. I went ahead and lied to her. (Told her I wasn't a virgin.) I then asked if she was and didn't get a reply. (I got a buffer text from her before doing so.)

I'll probably text her back and avoid the "V" topic for a bit. I do have a point up on her: Been calling her my second favorite high schooler and she's eager to do something to bump herself up to #1. Any clever ideas on how to use this to: transition to phone game-> face to face-> escalation -> f-close.

Any advice you could pass along to this newbie would be greatly appreciated.