He talks about how you should escalate quickly, from the start. But then he talks about how you should escalate the vibe, which is just listening and not much touching, so when you first grab her hand you can have a mutual caressing thing going on.

Wtf... My intro involves a decent amount of touching and gets very close to her.

Me: "Hi" *Sticks out hand*
Her: "Hi" *Shakes hand*
Me: What's your name? *I'm holding on to her hand the whole way through btw*
Her: Jessica
Me: *Tilt my head to the left, as if I can't hear her - Hinting that she should repeat it. I move a little closer to her at the same time.*
Her: Jessica
Me: *Tilts head to the right, but this time, I move in very close to where my lips are brushing against her neck... and I'll either breathe on her, maybe give her small a kiss on the neck too*

Someone please clear things up for me. Obviously what I do doesn't cause much "Escalating the vibe". He says to escalate the vibe, but at the same time, make a bold intro.

EDIT: And I still don't know what "Holding Face" is.

Have you taken the time to find this out for yourself?


Call it a social experiment.


Here's the theory:

Escalating the vibe means putting out a very strong sexual vibe, she knows what's up from the get go. Slow movement, strong eye contact with bedroom eyes,

The intro's from what I can see good enough to be called 'bold'.

Escalating the vibe is done throughout the night. Instead of doing all the talking and trying to entertain her with your dancing-monkey behavior, you actually ask her questions and let her talk about herself.

Then while she's doing it, you start moving closer as the interaction goes on and you slowly escalate to the point where the "mutual caressing" occurs. If that happens, it's definitely on. No need for kisses and other things. As soon as you experience mutual caressing, you can take things to the sexual level whenever the time is right.

. . .

Also, the whole Holding Face thing . . . I'm not sure about this, but I think it was the whole deal that you hold a "poker face" and don't show any too exciting emotions. He explains that your face reveals A LOT of how you feel. So if you're super excited about talking to this girl and interacting with her - your face will show that excitement and she will pick up on that.




If you instead hold a calm, "neutral" face - she can't tell how you feel. You will show it instead, through touching. It's way more effective.

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