Hi Everyone...

Just felt like writing a very random post. I do not know how many of you have every fallen back to your your old AFC selves. I know for a fact that I have surely done it a couple of times since I reached PUA status, in 2007 according to me.

I have no idea how or why this keeps happening and I am sure it happens more often than not, that is why there is actually a term for it, AFC reversion syndrome. Don't know if you have ever heard of it but anything that has been named happens often enough to be a pain...

My most recent reversion was in March 2010... I met a girl, probably an HB7. This was one of the few women that I met who I like more because of their personality than her looks. We sarted dating in March 2010 and have been together since. Since then I have slipped back into AFC mode. I have become needy, I have become jealous, I have become almost dependant on her. Luckily I am strong enough as a person and a PUA to identify this and to fix it but for some odd reason we all fall back into almost a negative frame. I am not saying that I have been seeing her exclusively but for some reason I have pair bonded with this woman, in Mystery's words, and that makes me act funny around her. I am not the strong, non needy person. For some odd reason the AFC in me values her higher than he values me.

Who has a solution to this problem? How, without leaving her, do I get past this problem? Does this happen to anyone else out there?