The problem with negs is that they can often backfire if used inappropriately and demonstrate low
Social Intuition. Here are some tips to avoid this situation:

1) Only neg high-value women. If she is not one of the most attractive women in the room, don’t neg her

2) Don’t over-neg. One, maybe two, is usually the maximum unless you are dealing with a woman who is vastly out of your league.

3) Don’t draw attention to the neg. Change the subject quickly or deliver the neg as an aside when you are in the middle of a longer story or piece.

You should always say something unrelated to the neg as soon as you deliver it. If you pause for her to react, she might feel defensive or feel she needs to respond negatively to you in order to “save face”, especiall in front of her friends.

I see where your going with this. Negs should always be out of the blue while your in the middle of something.... not like yea u have man hands, and then not say anything

I disagree I use negs on all girls. Its just playful teasing. But the difference, the uglier a girl the more I make fun of her intelligence, the hotter the girl the more I make fun of outside appearance.

I disagree I use negs on all girls. Its just playful teasing. But the difference, the uglier a girl the more I make fun of her intelligence, the hotter the girl the more I make fun of outside appearance.

Tell that to Savoy and Mystery. Two of the top PUAs in the world...lol

The girl I'm seeing (second date soon...) is a lot shorter and I like that I feel tall next to her. If I neg her, saying something like "you make me feel so tall", would this do more harm than good since I'm drawing attention to my height (or lack thereof)?

The girl I'm seeing (second date soon...) is a lot shorter and I like that I feel tall next to her. If I neg her, saying something like "you make me feel so tall", would this do more harm than good since I'm drawing attention to my height (or lack thereof)?

You are on day2 so there shouldn't be any negs used to begin with. You should be in the comfort stages. I might would use a neg/freeze out if she tried to shit test me, but other than that, you should have built attraction already.

Negs are used as a "false disqualifier" when first meeting a woman. It makes them feel like you aren't trying to hook up with them. Using negs after attraction is already done is likely to make you look like an asshole.

ps. i don't even know if i would even consider that a neg to be honest with you.

What are you talking about. It seems like you just got done reading the game and MM and think you know what you are talking about.


Please don't listen to his advice. You need to playfully tease once in a while. Shes not going take it as an insult if you do it right. She will think you are a funny guy for doing this and not think of you trying to lower her value but just messing around with her.

Make sure you tell stories and jokes and just have a good conversation.

Good luck!