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Alright, I go to a big ass HS of 2500 people, but theres this one girl ive seen/talked to in the past. Recently we've been texting A LOT. ive used the cube on her and explained her body language, and used a few negs. it also seems we share a lot of things in common. Music, friends, party ideas, ect. However, we don't see other much in person, which bothers us both. sometimes she acts interested in me (starts convos) but other times it seems she's not. Ive recently told her "K. New rule. we can no longer talk to each other until we hang out" she responds -Kayy. bye
any suggestions what to do?
Okay man seems as if you were biting off a little more than you can chew here, how are you supposed to hang out with her if you don't talk? Anyway, I'm not here to judge you.
POSSIBILITIES
1) an oppurtunistic shit test she's done on you because she found a weakness
2) she flaked
SOLUTIONS
1) Call her, say there is absolutely no logic in saying that you can't talk until you've hung out, then accuse her of brainwashing you into the idea and now you're going to go around wearing a foil cap on your head, nice bit of negging to take away her interpretation of what you said. When organizing a date say "I might be available etc., you should really organize something" and the ball will roll from there, don't say "can we" or "should we" if you're asking to hang out say "I want to hang out", "let's hang out", you get me?
If you are the one who has to make the first move, then demonstrate your high value to convey to her that it is a PRIVELEGE to even hear your goddamn voice!:D
2) If I were you, I'd give this one up. Unless you see bags of relationship potential in her, then don't bother your arse chasing her, i'm sure there's PLENTY of women around who are hotter, wetter and easier. Learning to recognize a dead set is part of becoming a PUA.[/b]