Congruence Tests
(This took place within 10 minutes)


1. She Ignored me - I called her name two more times then she responded and laughed playfully.

2. I asked, “Where are you going? And she said “ Home” with a smile on her face as she continued walking away.. I ignored it, as she wasn’t really going home.

3. She starts leaving and with a serious tone says “See you around.”. I told “Come here.” with a smile on my face. She starts smiling hard and comes back.

4. When she comes back she says “Add me on face book.” while walking towards me, as she is on her way to class and can’t be late. I say, “I don’t get on face book that often. What are your digits?”

5. She says, “No, I don’t give my number out. ” She appeared to be very serious. And starts walking off. I say, “Come here.” She comes back with a smile on her face. I say, "I’m not one of these 'other guys' you talk to. You can give me your number.” She starts laughing.

6. She says, “What happened two semesters go when I gave you my number?” (Last semester I was AFC and got her number but only called once and she didn’t answer so I gave up.) I say, “You got shy and you didn’t reply!” She start laughing.

7. I say “I think you are intimidated by me!” She stops laughing, gets serious, and says “ You DO NOT intimidate me.”



I kept smirking and I didn’t respond. She says “Here, take my number.” I put her number in my phone and hug her. SUCCESS

She’s a HB8.5 and she turns guys down ALL the time, and very harshly I might add. If I was a AFC there is NO WAY I would have gotten her number. Most guys would have been chewed to pieces! I would have been blown out, but I made a promise to myself that I will not leave anymore sets without closing.





Questions

1. What the hell happened? Why did things happen the way they did?

2.Why was she shit testing me back to back like that? (I know more attractive girls test more often, but this seems ridiculous even for an attractive girl)

3. Any idea on what her thoughts might have been during this? (maybe I really do intimidate her lol)

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When she said "You do not intimidate me" you should have grabbed her by the shoulders and grabbed her in saying, "Look into my eyes..". And then with a smile you slowly say, "Yeah..I can see the intimidation in those puppy eyes." You want to be very dominating with her, you want to be confident and not bothered by any "good" move she does to you. She does LIKE you, she came back twice when you told her to.

The reason she was throwing bunch of shit - tests at you is the fact that you were AFC last semester. She wants to see if you're the same loser as before.
You're already at the losing end, she clearly HAD all the power according to how the conversation went. And then you begged for her number.
Despite all that, she does have a slight interest and gave you her number, so if you wanna pick up this girl, you have to step up your game and being more dominant alpha.

^Ha ha begged? I was using alpha body language, touching , AND being cocky and funny.

But that does make sense, she is testing me because I USED to be AFC. Well do you think that I will have to put up with more shit tests or have I proven myself. I was so unaffected it was ridiculous.

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How were you an AFC if you only called her once last time and she didn't respond?

I'm not saying what I did was AFC. I was an AFC in general. My thoughts about women were AFC, so I didn't persist til I got the lay nor did I know the material and stages necessary for a full close.

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Thanks for help Nyesto!

I need some feedback. Is there anyone else who can offer the insight on this situation?

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