you dont think its weird not having a girl at 16?

It's not wierd at all.

And you don't think you're attractive?

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i think im very attractive but i feel like i dont spit that much game

Well that answers ur question. When you're young, game doesn't matter all that much. Especially at 16. Attraction and the way you carry yourself is WAAAYY more important than game in high school.

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yeah, you don't need game until girls get old enough to grow a brain and then realize the bargaining power of their collective pussies.

just had this discussion with my brother over coffee and brunch yesterday morning, should have seen the looks coming from the four young hot chicks two tables over.

Who cares? Don't worry about it. You're getting laid, whatever you're doing is working. A lot of people in pick-up have conflicting ideas - some say you have to be really confident and social to get girls, some say you should focus on being indirect and using DHV stories and routines to build attraction, some say you should always be direct... Everybody has a different style, and different qualities that make them attractive. Your style is working for you, if you try to change it too much you might fuck it up.

The thing with quiet guys is that we are good listeners, which girls like a lot. Everybodys favorite conversation topic is themselves, so when you let a girl talk shit all night about herself and you seem genuinely interested she's going to really like you. Also yeah you're right, your good looks will help you a lot, and a lot more girls will be instantly attracted to you because of them (even though a lot of people will tell you looks don't mean shit, they do). I don't spit much game either. I'm quite direct, and I always focus on getting the girl to talk a lot more than me, listen to her, use eye contact and a sexual/seductive vibe to create sexual tension, then escalate. I don't do anything fancy, you don't need it.

Anybody that tells you that you need to have 'solid game', a big routine stack, DHV stories, or that you have to approach 20 sets a night either doesn't know what they're talking about, or they're probably trying to sell you their products.

well i havent gotten layed in 6 months because i dropped out of school and i need a new way to get girls.So heres what happened I got forced into going to an alternative school because i flunked freshmen year and i didnt want to go to alt school because i got punked and if i fought back id be stuck there for another year.ALso all the girls at alt school are ghetto and ugly.So anyways i made the decision to drop out of high school and ive been at my house the past 4 months and my life has completely gone down the drain.Now im doing online classes but i dont have nearly as many friends as i did and i have no way to meet girls advice GREATLY appreciated

Yo man im also 16, Junior in high school. Dude you need to just call up your old friends or whoever you still hangout with and just chill with them because you don't wanna leave yourself out of the picture. And don't they have parties where you live? Even if you are shy you must have been semi-popular at the Least to get girls. Trust me man i had a different experience when i transferred schools where i used to be very popular and all my good friends where there, and at this new school i am already popular but i stayed in contact with my old friends so i still get to see all of them and the hot girls . Just make sure you stay in contact with them

my friend group disbanded and i had to rely on myself to get girls(girls started talking to me) i live in a crappy town in michigan and i was one of the most swagged out guys in school thats why i got girls but since i dont go to school i dont have a shot to look swagged out.Also were i live people HATE drop outs its not cool to be bad here and thats another reason i struggle with girls I have the reputation of bieng a scrapper and girls dont like that

damn man your in a tough situation. dont make it complicated though, if you have your license or anything just go out and dont let it get to you. make sure your keep your self esteem up thats all. just go out and have fun and all the people you know will want to be around a fun guy so they wont focus as much on you dropping out and what not.