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Freshpressed
PostPosted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 2:06 pm 
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Went out last night with a friend, and a bunch of her friends who I didn't know.
Got straight into trying to build a connection with people; they didn't know me, and they were all friends so I didn't just wanna be left out.

Anyway, things went pretty well, got along with everyone but ONE person.
This one girl seemed to have an issue with me all night, and I tried to sort it out with her, tried ignoring her, negging her, complimenting her (But not too directly), but she was having NONE OF IT!

And as she began to grow more and more difficult, the others began to slowly go off me, social proof in reverse I guess.

Anyway, what I'm asking is you guys' opinion on how I should have acted, ignored her completely? Gone all out to please her. Let me know guys, any questions ask away,

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Ignore after first attempt - it's not worth it trying to go for a girl that's that hard.
You overworked yourself and that's why the other went off you. You tried too hard.

Why didn't you just focuss on having some fun?

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Well I wasn't interested in her, more interested in getting her on my side seeing as they were all her friends, but yeah I get your point mate.
And I would of had fun but was a bit difficult by the time most people had gone all iffy
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You are dependant of yourself to have fun, not on anybody else.

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"I'm the life of the party - everybody wants to be with me"

Come on man, believe in yourself ;)

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Cheers for your help mate, I'll keep that in mind.
And looking back and thinkin, I probably was a bit too try hard, I'll definately keep that in mind for next sarge
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Good luck with your next sarge, don't forget how to keep your mindset tho!
It's really important.

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