I have had this with several girls, and everytime we get to my bed its on and it seems as if the sex is normal from this point, but never happens

In total I have had this problem with 3 different girls where we both naked and only the boxers should go off, but as it seems when I want to go down on her they always pull me up and ask me what I'm dooin, I usually ignore this and just keep dooing my thing but then they pull me up again and give me the serious look.

This has happened to me with 3 girls different and I have been reflecting and reflecting and thinkin what I have could have been dooing wrong

I just cant seem to find why they always do this.
I'll sum up what couldve cause these LMR's
- Because I sometimes talk.
- Usually they end up in my bed on the first or second time we hang out.
- Am I not persistent enough?
- Am I not dominant enough?

Does anyone else have this problem? I would love to hear it.

What do you do for foreplay? And how much time do you normally take?

I takes long enough, we kiss, I caress her whole body, eye contact at times its possible. I go down on from her ear to her neck to her body, slowly gooin down.

I have also do massages before anything actually happens.

I think we need more details! Got the FRs on these?

Ok so I used to have little connection with the last girl I've had coming over. We left school and I havn't talked to her since a year where she suddenly added me on a facebook-similiar profile. We talked on IM and I invited her over. We went to get a drink and I told her I have a great movie at home and she was happy to accept and come over.

So I put on the movie, grabbed 2 drinks, we talked a little, and started to tickle eachother, we laughed and ended up asking if she likes massages, she awnsered with "Yes I do" like she would get one, and I awnsered "Yeah me too, you could give me one."

I stood up, pulled my shirt off and lied on my bed and said, "So are you coming?" she sat on me massaged me, and then it was my turn and she wouldnt want to pull her shirt off I told her "You made me go shirtless" and eventually she pulled her shirt out too. I massaged her too, turned around and started kissing.

I caressed her whole body, pants were flying off underneath the sheets and it went on like that for a couple of minutes. She was kind of scared to grab my dick so I grabbed her hand put it on my dick and she grabbed my hand and put it on her ass because, probably because I haven't grabbed it by then.

The rest is in the first post.

I think you should try things in reverse. Instead of trying to go down on the girls, try getting them to go down on you. Personally, I`m not a of fan going down on chicks off the bat, especially if she is just a fun-fuck. It kinda gives off a needy, wussy vibe. That could be what is weirding them out.

I wouldn't attempt to go down on her.

Some girls are self conscious about being "fresh" down there... I'd leave it and wait until another time.

You should still progress towards sex, remove her shirt, try rubbing her pussy or fingering her.

Whisper in her ear the things you want to do to her... feel out the situation, how her body responds and go from there.

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