Last night I met a girl and got her to come back to my dorm. I could tell she was quite a good girl, so I took it easy. she immediately was in my bed watching tv, while my roommates had girls of their own in each bed, respectively.

We talked for awhile while I was building attraction then I got up to go to the bathroom. I came back and laid the opposite direction and had her follow me where I put my arm around her. She instantaneously asked ME to dinner, so I knew she was enjoying it and we started to make out. I commented on how awkward one of my roommates was being, and asked her if she felt awkward or wanted to leave numerous times, only because it was so obvious she was enjoying herself i used it as almost a push\pull method. Every time she responded no, and commented on how she wanted to stay longer..

I woke up the next morning to a text that she couldn't do dinner because she was busy with homework/laundry all day (?). I knew something was up and so i asked her to a movie that she wouldn't stop talking about the other night. She said no, she was busy the entire weekend. Even though she DLV earlier informing me she had no friends. I called her out on her BS and she said she felt uncomfortable the entire night- which was more BS. You wouldn't ask someone to dinner and confirm it before you leave if you didn't like them haha.

Just curious what you guys think happened? I feel like someone told her I was a player or something, but I'm not sure. Maybe she is just weird?? If it is the player thing though idk what to do to combat that from happening again..

Just be like, "You seem depressed." It'll give her the hint of explaining what's going on. Ever since I began this PUA stuff, I have learned so MUCH about people in general. They hide so much shit, act so unusual at times, and when you get good at picking these things up you get really apathetic.

What Nyseto said is far much better than "calling her BS". That is a sure way to not get anywhere. Just imagine that someone tells you that, you will become defensive and will want to avoid that person.

About what happened: In his Anihiliation Method, Style says that is always your fault, you weren't good enough, your game was lacking. It is funny that I have applied that to everything in my life but to social skills. Something went wrong at work, it was my fault and I will improve for the next time. Someone was beating me at sports, it wasn't because he will be always better than me, or that game wasn't suited for me, I knew that I needed to improve and become better (and the fact is that I did). Now that finally I have been show that I have to apply that same mentality to social skills, I have started to improve (finally ).

Two points from what you have described:
- You ask her once if she feels awkward and wants to leave, you're thinking on her well being. You ask her more than once, and she will start thinking that you want her to leave. Maybe that night she will still let it slip, but in the morning, once she is thinking about it, she will get that impression.

- The same way that you cannot invite for dinner, or coffee, or anything in which the objective is to be you two alone, you cannot accept quickly that kind of invitations. Say that you have a previous commitment or similar, and then offer about doing something else that you were going to do ("I am going to shop for a hat ...")