Hey everyone, hopefully someone out there will be able to help me out.

ok, so i work in a gym and one of the other fitness instructors has a smoking hot daughter.

Im 20 and the daughter who is 22 is having a bday party/ house warming that ive been invited to.

Now the mum, who i work with an get on very well with, invited me and other work mates to the party.

I get on with both parents and the daughter, but me and the daughter only speak when she comes to the gym and as of yet the convo has been nothing more than general conversation.

So my dilema and question to you is what is the best way to go about this whith out screwing up my work relationship with the girls mother.

i hope thats clear and some one can help me out, cheers

Don't get into the daughter's life too much. In other words, forget about the mom. Only wussies try and sneak under the radar to gain credit from parents/friends first. All you need is for the mom to consider you're a normal person. Don't suck up and get her mom to treat you in an exceptional way and then for her to begin talking to her daughter about you.

Do not try to "work" with the parents, forget the parents. Just be polite, don't go over the top with them. Take on the idea of sneaking away with the daughter. Isolate her, get a number, find a way to improve your communication with her. Or next time you see her, you can do something crazy/weird/original with the daughter.

Example: She's at the gym working out. Just go up to her randomly and grab her hand and say, "Come with me." as if you're in a rush. If she shows resistance, calm down a little and reassure her and say it won't take long. So grab her by the hand and LEAVE the gym with her and start jogging out on the sidewalk with her out of thin air just like that. Do it in a shocking/unexpected way so she'll think, "Everything is getting chaotic." While jogging she'll be all like, "What is it!? What are we doing?!" Just ignore it and say, "Did you know that jogging builds up your aerobic capacity and over time our hearts grow larger?" She'll be all confused. Just say, "I'm giving you some real exercise because what you've been doing in there was child's play." Just be really spontaneous and exciting. Go out on the grass with her after jogging and stretch with her.

Imagine that whole scenario playing out with you two ending back up at the gym and going back home. She will instantly begin to think about you non-stop as, "That one crazy guy at the gym pulled me out of there." Why waste time to slyly build attraction with talking? Just be impulsive/exciting. It's all about making impact. You may think that the unusual behavior would make you come off as a weirdo and for her to avoid you. It WILL make you look like a weirdo, but it must be done in a surprising manner where she would get the feeling that she's missing out on something if she doesn't do what you say.

i've been in a similar situation mate... and the question i have for you... is...

would you be willing to have a relationship with this girl???

answer that question... if someone had of asked meeee that question a long time ago... then i would probably still be working at my old job lol...

my story:
i worked with a bloke who was in his 40's and he loved me to death... always tried to help me out... we had a work bbq and his daughter came and she was hot as fuck and my age (19 at the time) so i started gaming her... worked well... ended up sleeping with her for a few weeks... and my boss (her dad) was all cool with it... then she started getting really clingy and was talking about relationships and such... and i was like... "fuck this... im out!" lol so basically i broke her heart... she told her dad... her dad watched me like a hawk at work and as soon as he found something to fire me over... he did lol... which worked out for the best because that was a dead end job compared to what i do now

but yeh... dont just think in the moment lol.. look toward the future as well...

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Thats one thing i havent been doing, as i said i get on well with the mother at work and thats as far as it goes, and im definately not waiting for her to say something to her daughter about me as i would probably still be in the same place in 10 years time.

As for your example, thats pretty good and i would never have thought of doing that myself, so look foward to a report of some kind in the near future.

cheers guys