So Ive just started my second semester as a freshman at a pretty good party school. I went out a couple times in the beginning of last semester but immediately realized I wasn't getting results and everytime I went out it was more of a thrashing of my self confidence, getting turned down by girl after girl, rather than a good time.

I'm not amazing at pick up but I'm not too bad either. Back in hs I built up a reputation and had Hbs coming to me solely off of having such high social value (I used to be a big fish in little pond, one of the most popular guy in school, now it's the complete opposite). It's not that I suffer from a lack of self confidence, I'm known to be a very self confident guy, and it's true. Last semester when I did go out I would, on the dancefloor, go straight up to girls grab them by he waste and start dancing with them and whisper in their ear "let's dance" (not necessarily the best method, I'm just making the point that im not that shy).

But at this point I just need all the advice on college gaming and college life in general (my main issue though is what to do at the frat party's and clubs, like how to get girls to dance with). I walk around he dancefloor now numerous times not making a move cause i'm terrified of getting rejected and jut going back to my circle of friends.

Whatever advice or methods you guys can throw my way would be helpful, thanks.

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My best advice to you would be to just approach it from a more laid back standpoint. I was a guy that used to frequent places like what you're describing and they weren't very fun because i was too focused on the outcome(not saying you are by the way). Not only that, but those fraternity boys have more of an advantage and I"ve learned that no matter how good my game is, I"m still likely to get blown out by them. I would say just go out, have fun, be social, be more laidback and make sure you don't fall into any traps that are given to you. Those social circles have been known to throw a bit of their style of game on guys like us so thats why you need to see if they're worth hanging out with. I hope this helps out a bit.

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