well, this is my first post in In-Field experience and before I proceed on to tell you guys what I did wrong, I suggest you guys know of the NO.1 rules in PU girls.

ALWAYS BE PREPARED TO PULLBACK FROM YOUR SET EVEN IF THINGS ARE GOING GREAT

Anyways.. here's the deal:

I came out of my classroom ( oh yes, I'm still a student, my last year of school before going to Uni), and there was this girl I've been sarging for the whole month, and apparently, prior to this moment, I had engaged in a conversation with her before and I was being cock-funny with her! I actually overdid it to the point that she said:

"I'm not talking to you anymore." Obviously she was playing around but I mistook it! -.-'
There was this other AMOG while I was talking to her when this occurred!
He was my competition, and he was a FUCKING competition! Apparently my target and this AMOG shared something together that I didn't share with my target! She happened to share with him a secret of hers and I didn't know about her secret leaving me practically blank. And after she said she wasn't gonna talk to anymore (in a playful manner), my target and this AMOG asshole was then talking, cause I cant talk to my target and If I did talk to her she would repeat the same line on me! FUCK THAT MOTHER FUCKING AMOG!

Well, after the class, like mentioned at the top, I went to her,maybe abolish that though of her of not talking to me! I should have followed rule No.1 from this point and everything would have been alright and normal.

But this Fucked-Up AMOG happened to be at the place where I was trying to engage in a conversation with her and I had no chance of going near her.

Thank GOD for my friend, he's a PUA too : TheAspiredOne
I approached him and told him about my issue of her not talking to me. Obviously I wasn't thinking straight, all I wanted to do is get my target back.

Well he did give me a good advice: "try make her think that you have something really fun and cool thing to say, and tell her all about this fun thing, but in reality, you have nothing to talk about! it would create an environment where she will finally think that whatever you're gonna say will be something she'd be interested in"

I went to my set, ignored everyone and had a 1v1 conversation with her:
Me: so...I've something really cool and fun to say
Her: I'm not talking to you..
Me: well, its alright with me, guess I'll have to share this with some other GIRL
Girl: okay,, what is this fun thing?
*I was panicking at this point cuz, I have nothing to tell her, but I tried to appear calm cause of DHV, so I decided to the some crappy tricks that might work*
Me:* a few seconds pause* Your eyes... I could get something from it...
Girl:.....
Me: *I said something about her that didnt Impress her* I could see your perfectionism is the only thing that your not perfect about..

I'm not sure if the sentence had total sense in it but anyways..

Girl: huh? I dont get it
Me:*I twisted the words a litte* Your perfect alright, but maybe your perfectionism is towards making other people better but not yourself, you should care about yourself for once

Girl: Isnt that a bad thing?

I have no fucking idea how that was a bad thing. In my reality, it was one of the moments they should go 'aww....thank you'

Me: No.. its a good thing
Girl:no its not,, your saying something bad about me
Me: it is a good thing, maybe you should care about yourself more than your friends..
Girl: Im no talking to you anymore..
Me: *Frustrated* What?! *i was trying to be cock-funny here* wait, after I told you that fun thing, you started ignoring me again?
Girl:well,..it wasnt something fun nor interesting..

*I was panicking again at this point I decided to blow her the real deal, obviously something a PUA should never do..*

Me: well..I have something I really want to tell you thats interesting.. *I was being a bit serious here*
Girl: okay,sure, what is it?
Me: lets go somewhere else, its a bit noisy here * i moved cuz I need to buy time for me to think of something*
Girl: okay,,

After Finding a place that was more quieter..
Me: well.. I'm your friend right?
Girl: umm..yeah *she had an awkward look on her face*
Me: okay so..what ever tests (i refer to routines as tests) that I've done on you were acutally experiments..Yes, I'm experimenting on you
Girl: what? okay..but why?
Me: cuz i want to broaden my horizon about girls...
Girl: ohh...so what ever I'm gonna do , please dont take it personally * I had no idea what I was saying actually, just wanted a conversation starter*
Me: okay..well thats it

THat girl got up and left..went back to the original place and I just fe

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I totaly dont agree with the rule you said.

The thing here is your LACK of plan.

you go to the girl and re-open

Me: so...I've something really cool and fun to say
Her: I'm not talking to you..
Me: well, its alright with me, guess I'll have to share this with some other GIRL

Up to here, perfect.
But you HAVE to have a plan.
Either you actually have something funny to say, either you dont have anything to say and you just want her to boil it up.

So when she says

Girl: okay,, what is this fun thing?

You can just say: "Too late, you lost your chance. I guess I'll make some other's girl laught today." And leave, with a cocky funny smile on your face.

At this point (if she is interested) she will start go crazy with curiosity and even is she'll not come to you right away, she'll think about it often enought...

And when she comes along, you will start neg her because of her lack of trust for you, and the funny thing will not be the issue anymore...

well apparently what I said ' I have something really cool and fun to say' only creates a reality of mine where she is sucked into it!
My PUA friend, TheAspiredOne, was at the scene when I was doing all this and I asked him what I should do and since he's into NLP, he suggested I create my own reality which is saying" i have something cool to say/fun to show you" and thus they'll get too engrossed in us and we can even use it to do Push-Pull Dynamics!
Like what Damrini said, we can say she lost the chance and she'll come back reeling at us! :p
Anyways, that girl and me, we're okay now!
I've managed to kino her a few times but havent N-Close nor K-Close!
And I've got one more problem to ask:
she said she wanted to tell me a secret, but she also says she doesnt feel like telling me..
this is a bit weird and I dont know how to react to that.. so I left it as it is.. thinking that I can get enough rapport and comfort with her to get her to tell me!!
AND AND AND.. before I 4get..
She gave me a SOI!!!
SOI- Statement Of interest!!!! :DD
She said I was cute/sweet ( it was one of those words) :p

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