So I want to ask..How would a typical PUA treat a girl? I've been through my stages..I was at this stage where I was really nice to girls. Then I got to this stage where I was an asshole. Now I'm at this stage where I've read so many peoples opinions I feel like I'm completely confused about how to treat a girl. Basically what I'm saying is, if you want a girl to like you, and you want her to want you. You want her to initiate the conversation first, and go out of her way to see you.. How would you treat her. I see people say, ignore her. But I know if a girl ignored me, I would take it as a sign of rejection and move on.

The reason I'm asking this is because recently, I was talking to this girl. It all started out fine, but I started out playing the nice guy, holding hands, kisses on the cheek etc., I believe she had a boyfriend at the time but we still hooked up. One day she told me she broke up with her boyfriend and we got closer ever since, then she decided to basically say that she has the dick in this relationship (jokingly of course), But I didn't take it as a joke because she says it more than once, so I as any other guy would, got offended and started acting like a complete asshole, with a couple nice gestures here and there. Everytime I would do a 'nice gesture' (walk her to class) I would hesitate at first, then wen I finally agree to walk her to class she would say, "good boy" -__- Which completely made me want to just turn around and walk away without any words being said. I probably fucked up somewhere along the line..Maybe too nice in the beginning?
Well, that's why I ask this question..

How do YOU treat a girl as a typical PUA?

Don't be afraid to go into detail, and PLEASE use examples. Thanks!

Haha i know exactly what you mean when you say that you've been through the nice stage, then the mean stage and now you have no idea where to go because your brain is overloaded with contradicting information... i too was once there lol...

you cant be mean to a girl all the time... and you cant be nice to a girl all the time... when my game was leaning over toward the ignorant stage i did pick up that i was tooooo ignorant because this one girl i picked up said to me... "i didnt even think you liked me! you constantly ignored me and wouldnt even take any notice of me" this got me thinking lol...

women want that emotional connection... you cant get an emotional connection by being a fucking asshole all the time lol... sooooo... you have to know WHEN to be a nice guy and when to be an asshole...

i always walk in with the whole "happy fun vibe" and start talking... however... i act like a nice guy... but not the typical nice guy that constantly supplicates beautiful women... i walk in to the set with the whole mentality of me being this really relaxed fun happy guy and if they step out of line then i'll let them know about it... im having a hard time explaining it lol... basically... you're a nice friendly guy who's constantly in his OWN reality and you dont take shit from anyone no matter how beautiful they are... in saying this though... if a chick shit tests you... dont go off at her like "what the fuck kind of a question is that you stupid dick demon?!?!" lol DONT be emotionally affected! just deal with it the usual way you deal with every shit test lol... but keep it fun... be fun... but be the man... the dominant party in this interaction

and as for what you need to start fixing your current situation... you need to start being a man... keep the pimp hand strong lol... she knows she can walk all over you at the moment... and you're getting emotionally affected... DONT BE EMOTIONALLY AFFECTED!! otherwise SHE wins... we dont want that lol... i dont care if you disagree with this but SHE is the dominant one out of you two... i suggest you either change your whole attitude towards her and starting "sorting your hoe out" lol or just cut her away and start again with a new one until you find your dominance...

hope it works out for you mate...

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LMFAOO!! I'm literally laughin my ass off .. hahahaaa
I understand what you're saying but uhm .. I'm not emotionally affected. Lol I just felt offended. I'm not even emotionally attracted .. I do feel attraction but I think it's all physical attraction. So what should I do about the situation?.. Next time she expects me to walk her to class just flat out say no and walk the opposite way? Lol What do you recommend me do the next time she expects me to walk her to class?

ok well... the whole idea is to live in YOUR own reality... and not care about what anyone else thinks... from my point of view... you getting "offended" is you being "emotionally affected"... see i cant really tell you what to say to her if she says it again because i cant recall a situation that i've been in that is the same as that...
however... if a girl did say something like "good boy" to me... i'd laugh it off and IOD her or i'd turn it back on her and say something like "thats right i am a good boy... and if you dont feed me right and look after me like the nice girl you are... then i may just jump the back fence and run away!..." she may have just been fucking with you lol... like joking around?

did she pat you on the head when she said "good boy" lol?? because sometimes girls will say weird shit to me and it can easily be misinterpreted as a shit test but they are really just fucking around with me...

ok well once i found out the whole "get her to jump through your hoops before you jump through hers" my game improved soooooooo much lol... i was getting women to clean my dishes and my clothes... because i started off the whole relationship with them by getting them to jump through my hoops first... and im not talking about like a REAL relationship... these are just fuck buds lol...

ok so your current situation... if she asks you to walk her to class again... dont say no and dont say yes straight away... get her to jump through one of your hoops... and then her reward will be you walking her to class...

do you understand the whole hoop theory??? or do you want an example of it?

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How should I IOD her?.
and yes, please give me an example. I think I understand what you're sayin but I'm still a little confused

ok well i cant remember where i got this one from but here's what i use when they try to get me to do something...

Girl: "hey can you walk me to class? "
Me: "haha maybe... but that depends on how good your answer is..."
Girl: "???"
Me: "before i walk you to class... you have to give me one compliment..."
Girl: "you have nice hair "
Me: "haha hmmm maybe you'll be walking yourself to class... unless... you can come up with a better compliment?? "
Girl: "ok well... i like your hair and you have really nice eyes "
Me: "hmm... not bad... ok ill walk you to class ... but only because you give good compliments "


basically thats the hoop theory... she's trying to get me to jump through her hoops by saying "can you walk me to class" and im reversing it... and saying "you must give me one compliment and then ill decide " so if she gives me a compilment then that is HER jumping through MY hoop lol... understand? basically get her to do something for you and use whatever she wanted you to do as a reward...

understand?

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Yeah I get what you're saying man.. Thanks alot!
By the way I've been freezing her out and talking to other girls and now she's been going out of her way to talk to me. =D

I used the little texting routine

Her: wake up!
Me: I'm up. I'm not a sleepyhead
Her: Lol hi!

(an hour later)

Me: I was busy with something else.. but wats up?
Her: Nothing, It's fine, I was just on the phone with a friend. He said *(bladi bladi blahhh...)* It was sooo funny
Me: Oh ha..that's cool but I'm about to go to bed so I'll talk to you later.

^This probably sounds like I'm in the friend zone since she's talking about other guys but I can assure u that I'm not. She's probably going crazy right now.. This is the last thing I'm gonna do though before I regain full control (onlly because im not a big asshole).

By the way..I think she brought up her 'friend' to try to make me jealous.. this is a good thing. lol

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Yeh man i think you're spot on that she brought up her "friend" just to make you jealous lol... in the back of her mind she's probably thinking
'if i say something about another man then he will try harder for me because he doesnt want to lose me... thats what the rest of the guys do'

so yeh man thats good work... let me know how it all goes when you regain control

and remember that just because she jumps through one of your hoops that thats not the end of you hooping her! keep hooping her whenever she wants you to do something for her... i never stop hooping them... this is probably why they do so much for me when i have no actual commitment with them lol... but in saying all this... i do do stuff for them as well... so its not just a one way street...

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A wise man once told me
"Bros before hoes, unless hoes have no clothes!"

I understand completely now! Thanks bro.
I'll let you know how everything goes when I see her in a few days

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