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PostPosted: Fri Jan 28, 2011 12:05 am 
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Hey guys i need some advice. I am usually good with girls naturally but i just stumbled upon this site and figured i could get a meaningful insight on my situation. I am a Junior in High School just so you know. Okay so there's a girl in my class who is now single and i had heard from one of her friends she wants to hook up with me and its noticeable because i see the way she looks at me. This girl is at least a 8.5 but that doesn't really matter too much. So i have been texting her for the past two days then i decided to let her know i had to go during a conversation i could tell she was enjoying. I didn't text her the next day and i saw she kept looking at me in school so i knew she was pretty interested. But yesterday we only texted for a little and then she didnt respond and today she decided to ignore my text (i'm assuming).

1. What should i do?

2. We have had mostly normal conversations but i try and flirt a bit and throw in some lines that have made her laugh but also stuff that lets her know im going to be a challenge. But what should i do to make her recognize the fact i have feelings for her and also whats a way to get into conversations with meaning? like i noticed a good friend of mine is always in these intimate conversations dealing with feelings or whatever and he is great with girls. Thanks for any input i receive.

P.S. i do not really like the idea of "don't compliment her" or some other advice ive seen on saying something rude instead of coming up with something that will make her smile. Don't get me wrong though, i do say things that should make her realize im not a pushover :)


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 28, 2011 1:15 am 
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Dont text her. Freeze her out for a bit and see if she starts to respond. In class dont look at her, pay her not attention. Keep your interactions with her brief and fun.
Fun doesnt mean shower her with compliments either. When you neg her it can work both ways for you. So give it a try and most women honestly respond really well to it. Its all about tone, you can get away with a lot if it comes off as teasing and fun


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 28, 2011 3:17 am 
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Dont text her. Freeze her out for a bit and see if she starts to respond. In class dont look at her, pay her not attention. Keep your interactions with her brief and fun.
Fun doesnt mean shower her with compliments either. When you neg her it can work both ways for you. So give it a try and most women honestly respond really well to it. Its all about tone, you can get away with a lot if it comes off as teasing and fun
Ya man i was probably going to lay off the texting and wait for her to talk to me in class. Thanks for the advice.

Kasabi dude, that was a really good article. I am not the type to just be like "Hey i like you" cause that creates an awkward scene but i totally understand your post and your right. i shouldn't even have to mention it.


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 28, 2011 7:44 pm 
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if anyone else has any advice just let me post it and itll be greatly appreciated.


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The biggest advice I can ever give to you from personal experience is that girls don't mean what they say and don't say what they mean. Girls can say things that can really put you down or lower your self-esteem when in fact they are just saying it on PURPOSE! The absolutely most important thing is to have your self-esteem up and your emotions under control at all times. However, you have to learn to polish your skills up because girls can tell you things that are actually true. Like when this girl told me, "I stopped talking to you when you said you were that one hot guy walking around because it came off all cocky." But believe me, especially in relationships, keeping your emotions under control and telling yourself that's not what she ACTUALLY means is extremely helpful. I've gotten hurt pretty badly on many occasions and I sometimes looked like a fool because I retaliated, etc.


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The biggest advice I can ever give to you from personal experience is that girls don't mean what they say and don't say what they mean. Girls can say things that can really put you down or lower your self-esteem when in fact they are just saying it on PURPOSE! The absolutely most important thing is to have your self-esteem up and your emotions under control at all times. However, you have to learn to polish your skills up because girls can tell you things that are actually true. Like when this girl told me, "I stopped talking to you when you said you were that one hot guy walking around because it came off all cocky." But believe me, especially in relationships, keeping your emotions under control and telling yourself that's not what she ACTUALLY means is extremely helpful. I've gotten hurt pretty badly on many occasions and I sometimes looked like a fool because I retaliated, etc.
I understand its trust me I'm not upset or anything its one text. shes also very busy with her after school activities (no need to go into details but you understand everyone has priorities). But she hasn't ever said anything degrading or anything shes actually got a great personality. I think i might have just over reacted a bit. I mean as soon as i walked into class she looked at me and smiled instantly then came to talk to me.

Also if anyone has any text game advice I would love to hear. I have a pretty natural game when it comes to face to face conversations and such but i feel that i have too many "normal" conversations that don't make me stand out from the other guys. I have already read some things on this website but like i said, i am new so any links/advice i would love to hear. thanks guys


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The biggest advice I can ever give to you from personal experience is that girls don't mean what they say and don't say what they mean. Girls can say things that can really put you down or lower your self-esteem when in fact they are just saying it on PURPOSE! The absolutely most important thing is to have your self-esteem up and your emotions under control at all times. However, you have to learn to polish your skills up because girls can tell you things that are actually true. Like when this girl told me, "I stopped talking to you when you said you were that one hot guy walking around because it came off all cocky." But believe me, especially in relationships, keeping your emotions under control and telling yourself that's not what she ACTUALLY means is extremely helpful. I've gotten hurt pretty badly on many occasions and I sometimes looked like a fool because I retaliated, etc.
Hey Nyset . . .

I don't believe that a great basketball coach necessarily has to have been a great basketball player. . . but he needs to at the very least understand the game.

You have NONE of these abilites. You do not understand the game, you have NEVER GAMED, and you don't understand how to convey your message. Work on yourself first. What you're doing right now is just a complete, utter waste of time for EVERYBODY. Most of the guys here have absolutely no ability to ever even understand this. Do you realize that most of these guys do not have half the brain/artistic/cognitive skills that you possess?

Don't let it go to waste. You have the God given talent to be a Globe fucking trotting International PUA. I know this because I know people who have some of your abilities. Don't flush all of this God given talent down the 'little fucking tiny town anger toilet bullshit'. Everything that you see around you now is just a fucking ant farm.


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