hey guys,
I'm writing this both in the general section and the lesbian thread, cos I guess these are more general questions

I have a date with a cute & fun bi girl this WE, I'm visiting her town and she's showing me around (bad, cos I can't really lead, but other setting wasn't really possible)

now here's the trickys:

1. this girl has issues and problems and I know the rule is don't talk negative and the last time I saw her (event, not date) that went well - but on the other hand, if I decide I want to close with her in one way or another, I need to know how she's doing psychologically/ dealing with the issues she told me about when we first met - how do I balance this?

2. I read a first date shouldn't be too long or it might get boring - thing is her town is quite a bit away so I don't really want to take the train down there several times to build comfort - how long do you think the date should be?

3. her parents are really religious (she's 17, legal age 16 here) so I don't think we'll go to her place. And it's a small town and I'm bit concerned how things will go if aquaintances of hers see us and ask about me

so yeah, perfect first date settings

any advice (besides the don't date girls with issues, since I've made up my mind, I wanna give it a try)