Approaching set with multiple girls:

PUA: How come everyone girl that I talk to 'kinda' has a bf but they are still willing to give out their number? I mean, either you have a bf or you don't right?

Usually this sparks a debate amongst the group. Someone agrees that you either do or don't, but another girl steps up and says, "I kinda have a bf, cause I am seeing my ex". Then you can talk about branch swingers and what not.

Throughout the conversation, you can tell her that she's worthy of 'kinda' gf status, but she has some work to do to be a gf.

This has worked for me but be ready to stack it.

-rock

I'm not so sure about this one, it seems that when you're approaching a set of HB's, the last thing you want when making that first impression is your interest in boyfriends.

regardless if they have on, kinda, or don't... If they do, well throw in some bf destroyers, or completely brush it off.

CLz

Its a perfectly decent opener aside from the fact that if any of them have bfs, you probably screwed yourself out of any chance with them.

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In recent nights out in the field i have found a trick to the bf response. When ever they tell you that they ether have or kinda have a bf, the key is acting as though it doesn't faze you what so ever. Not a change in your body language, your facial expression, the tone of your voice, Nothing. It all must stay the same.

Last week i opened a 4 set. Shorty after doing so i was informed by one of the HBs that it was there girls night out because they all had boyfriends. I remained calm, smiled and said to her "really so do i" She then looked at me some what perplexed and smiled back. I then stole a line straight from the game, when i followed by leaning into her and telling her that "if i weren't gay you would be so mine". Long story short we talked for the rest of the night i worked on building attraction and later n-closed. She never asked about the gay shit again.

I guess the moral of the story is that we must always come in under the radar. Cool you've got a boyfriend but i didnt ask you if you did or not! Never say that but this should be your domineer.

In my opinion woman cant be trusted anymore than men. So when they tell you up front that they have a bf, its usually because they feel obligated to say so. This feeling of obligation can be a result of her being slightly attracted to you but most of the time i find that its there way of putting everything on you. So that if something goes wrong she can always fall back on the fact that she told you she had a bf.

Thanks for the response. I appreciate the feedback. What I find is that I am not expressing interest in if they have a bf or not, but rather asking how girls work. This could be a good thing or a bad thing. Let me know.

-rock

The problem isn't that you care if they have a bf, its that you told them that you want girls that either have or don't have a bf, thus you told any girls with bfs that you aren't interested in them. They're not going to look at you and go, "Well...I'll see if I like him and if I do, then I'll leave my bf for him." They're going to disclude your right off the bat and you pretty much can't come back from that level of shutdown.

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i like it. DHV, pre-selection, shows you have other girls on your hands to worry about and not gettting them doesnt hurt you. and its not one of those gay opinion, canned openers.

This is a very good opener, but it can go in any direction, and I think that's where it gets good. Although you have sort of excluded any girl with a bf from the eqaution it demonstrates that you still have dealt with those kind of girls.

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