I agree with Cedius, her emotions are all over the place, she is vulnerable and seeking validation from you, it's evident. Personally, don't do it, loads of women out there, keep some morals in tact, and let her wonder, atleast for now.

Why do you want to fuck her so bad?

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i dont know :s

satisfaction? love? dunnooooooo

its weird man

big history there.

other chicks havent been cutting it in bed either since her :s

I have felt that way before. Take this from my experience, if not what Cedius, Chelios, poet1234, bigdog225, Little Panda, and Mr Archer have said before me (that is seven people now)...

You do not need to regain power from this girl. That is just your ego talking. Ignore ignore ignore.

You keep asking how to get this girl back into your bed. There is a reason no one has bothered to answer that question.

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If you don't know, why chase it? Why not replace it with the urge to fuck someone else? Have fun, meet new people, build new connections.

Let her see the fact your having fun. She is probably loving the fact your thinking of her non stop.

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My point exactly but you seem to go against the grain with what we say...you know what...as Nike said...Just do it and get it over with!

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You can't make the same mistake twice, the second time you make it, it's no longer a mistake, it's a choice.

I'm going through a LTR breakup as well, also with a younger girl (maturity difference also.) I'm waiting for the same thing to happen, ( I think in all cases, girls tend to pull that card,) but you have to take a look at her past behaviors to really gauge what she could mean by it. Personally, I think 99% of the time it's an ego thing.

In my case, every attempt to be kind on her part was an ego thing or a trap or attempt for validation. Ignore it.

Yea, I think we all want that revenge aspect at times. You want the last say, and you want her to leave feeling like you did.

I'm telling you right now, it's hard to make it work that way. The way you make her realize what she fucked up? Do you and have awesome fun doing it. You'll find out down the road your ex, in most cases, isn't have a fraction of the incredible times you are.

question,what if the guy did something wrong for the relationship to end,then later she says she misses you after 1yr and a half?

Unless the male/female polarity switched in the relationship, don't ever think it's your fault, because it's not.

thnx man

quick question,3days ago i got back in contact with my ex and the convo went along to me saying i've been down that side alot since our last hi and bye,she responded with,why didn't i tell me,don't you miss me,i responded with don't you miss me,you have my number,you could've called to,and she said she misses me that she wants to hang out,that was 3days ago,since i'm trying to convey i'm busy and not needy,so she was up late last night,and the convo went like this

me:what is a little munchkin such as yourself doing up so late

her:i cant sleep but i should be sleeping i have work tomorrow
what about ur self?


me:talking to some peeps as you would call it,advice for sleeping,look up at the sealing,or throw in some family guy,bad advisee xD

her:family guy keeps mi up hes funni. that gets mi thinking and then i get sad lol y idk but it does.
any other ideas?

me:sad,well it does make me cry xD,well the real question is,what made you come to facebook after not being able to sleep..gud thing i was on
trying listening to some smooth music,it relaxes me
or like me,you can go to the kitchen and stuff your face until you fall asleep

her:well my bf doesnt have a fone rite now and this is the only way we can talk till school starts so thats y i got on but if it wasnt for that i dont really go on cuz wen im on nobody is on so it gets boring.

me:well make it fun,add new pplz and just start one big convo,its fun to meet new pplz


her:i don't like to meet new ppl online there crazy ppl out there.plus once i start skol again i'ma be busy.


so what would you guys say about this(its been over a yr since we talked)