HAUNTING REPUTATION:
I live in a pretty big town, theres a huge younger crowd but....everybody seems to known everybody. Im 26 yrs old and i've been single and back in the game for about 4 months now. My problem is this: If i meet girls out that are "new" i do very well until they find out about me. Its happened a few times where i will be out at the bar/club and my Game is on. I'd like to think i'm attractive, very funny, easy going and dont really have trouble closing with the numbers. But thats where it ends! most recent was this saturday where i met a very attractive girl and close with number and after texting ....nothing..... constantly ongoing struggle in this f'n town.

.FYI: I've had very extremely good luck with the random girls who i dont know them or any of there friends.

SO is it possible to have girls I known my whole life re-qualify me this late in my life? Girls that i've known forever?Or just stick with the new random girls that know nothing about me

uhh stick to friends dude lady friends and meet girls through them

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aiden k. baker

would like to know what: "till they finds out about me" means?

I dont really get what you're asking, do you want to increase your social circle, or do you have kind of a bad boy rep?

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"seduction isn’t making someone do what they don’t want to do. Seduction is enticing someone into doing what they secretly want to do already".
-Waiter Rant

Hey thanks for the feedback....

Real life situations(girls i see out that know me):
It just seems like the girls that already know me have already labled me as a chump or somebody that they would "not sleep with". Hate to blame it on my long term ex gf...but she was a whore and people know it and I was the chump who stayed for awhile and watched it happen. But i'm free now and I'm trying to rebuild my social circle with female friends to meet more girls...and the HAters(girls that know me) dont allow me to be freinds with them. Seems like there always putting in a bad word behind my back when i try to game one of there friends.


The online sarging is going great and so is the random girls i meet out at the bar. I've had a few one nighters and getting ton of numbers...jus this hauntin rep is killen me at the bars in and around my town

Lampshade it. Next time you're out talking to a HB and things are going well, bring up the topic. Something along the lines of:

YOU: 'I bet you'd never guess that I was a bit of a doofus a few years ago, right?'

HER: 'No, really?'

YOU: True bill babydoll. (Allude at this point to exactly how you were such a chump/ nerd/ whetever - perhaps even throw in a few true stories or show exactly how you would have behaved).

Because you've told her a bit about your past, it'll be more difficult for her to reconcile the idea of you as a chump vs. you the really amazingly cool guy talking to her now. Then, whenever one of these stories does get back to her, she'll be like, 'I already know that.'

But can I ask - are you sure that's the reason you're getting blown off? The reason I ask is because I'm from a relatively small city as well and when I went out, I had the illusion that lots of people knew about my 'background' and what I was like, only to find out that while some people knew who I was (and only in a pretty vague sense) most didn't know me at all. The point being that its easy to convince ourselves that we have some sort of negative rep or black mark against our name when we go out, when in fact thats generally not the case.

Either way, I'd reckon it says more about these ladies who spurn your second day advances. If she's going to listen to a few comments from someone else about you, rather than go by her own pleasurable experience.... well... I'd be pressing the 'release the hounds' button myself on that particular girl.

'Course, could be you've just got a really solid rep as a bad boy!

I'd like to think my game is on pretty good. Not to brag but i've done a solid 10-12 f-closes in last 4 months being single. ~not to shabby


*before you guys read this, just a side note ~ i don't/never done drugs but i have a few guys taht do on a certain basis but i don't, however i've always been there friends even tho i'm clean and they mess around once a while*

But This shit still keeps happen again this weekend!! I was out at the local bar and seen a girl standing with 4 guys...all older guys....but very attractive girl non the less. Left with her number and the one buddy i was with said she use to date his brother...


...anyways. Waited 2 days to text and this is how it went after a few flirting texts
Me:so you drink?(obvs), smoke? any drugs?
Her: I already know about "my friends name" crowd and how you guys are...
Me:Oh you do? I assure you i do not do drugs. Quit smoking 8 months ago. What about you?
Her:not i don't, not looking to date anyways just friends
Me:I never cancel it out but i hear ya on that. I'm headin to the gym though. Would you maybe like to join me this weekend for a drink?
Her: prob not...i barely know you..I do group things..not one on one.
*flaked after that text*

So my point is this. Ok maybe she was just one of those girls who wasn't in to me? big deal right? plenty of them out there. Shits been happening alot and sick of it. Hate how these bitches r so caddy judging me for shit i do not do or who i'm associated with. F the women race

Do you guys think if i change my friends crowd when i was out "Gaming" it would affect such problems as this? any other suggestions?