im in the army, shes in the army, it seems like every guy in the world starts with her no matter where she is... now she sorta kinda tells them to back off but still talks to them.. its like shes kinda naive about the whole part they are trying to flirt with her.. i keep telling her this guy gives you a bit more attention then just a regular female friend and i see it.. and shes like i would be disappointed if i knew that but i dont think so.. its like i dont know what to say? i dont want to look over-obsessive or too controlling because im deff not one of those.. i kinda wanna lay the law down without looking like that..help?

lol that sucks... ok well this is my whole mentality with a girlfriend and jealousy... and it helped me out a lot when i was new to all this and would get jealous like a mad cunt lol...

ok well my theory is... if some other bloke is good enough to pick up MY girlfriend from ME... then my hat comes off to him and ill high 5 that mother fucker lol... becaus i do a fucking good job and they know it...

it might sound like a small rule... but... its effective as fuck... well it is for me anyway... it took me a while to actually believe it... but works fucking wonders now... and i even run this routine on girls because it shows that you're not a jealous person... no one likes jealousy! and by saying all this they know that they wont get a reaction out of you if they did flirt with other people so they arent inclined to flirt because they know it doesnt work on you lol...

my theory... take from it what you want

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i like it actaully but i still need to kinda talk to her you know?

hmm ok well lol... this is a hard one... because you've started out telling her not to do it...

what i'd do is... i wouldnt say anything to her about flirting with other blokes... i wouldnt be emotionally affected by her... however... i usually run this routine with women as well... and works like a charm haha...

ill bring up one of my past relationships and then say that my ex used to work behind the bar at a pub and all these blokes used to flirt with her allllll the time... and i used to get jealous because back then i was a jealous person... however now... i have the mentality of if she fucks up and I FIND OUT... then thats it... its over... you only get one chance with me from now on because there are so many women out there that would be loyal so theres no point holding onto the loyalty breakers....

you understand the whole hidden message in this lol? well its not really hidden... but its sort of telling her NOT to flirt with other people... but its not directly at her... so she wont take it as an order... and when you say this you must truly believe it and have the attitude of "i dont really care what happens but if i catch you... thats it"

understand?? hope it works out for you mate

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Sounds like you have jealousy issues. You can't stop her from talking to other guys let alone other guys flirting with her. You know she is attractive, which only means she is going to get more attention this is one of the cons of having a hot girlfriend. Either come to terms with it or break up before your jealously gets any worse.

Yes it will get worse if you don't stop it now

Your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits , your habits become your character and your character becomes your destiny. You see the pattern?

You don't have tk talk to her at all, ignore ignore and ignore. Unless she's obviously out right flirting with a guy. And even then you should ignore it at the moment an then speak to her later on about it. Then you wanna say something like " if you wanna flirt with others guys that's cool, I just won't stick around for it"

Your jealous an as a women she can sense this. Cutt it out now dude. Face it guys are gonna talk to your girlfriend and there's "nothing" you can do about it. Besides grab your big army guns an kill em all.

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