How many sets should I be approaching a day?



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PostPosted: Thu Jan 27, 2011 1:21 pm 
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Should I stay at my 2 or should I be approaching 10+ women everyday until I see improvement? I'm playing daygame.


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It all depends.

Since it's day-game[more women out and about opposed to night],you should ramp this up to about 5-10.

But it all depends on what your trying to acheive:

1)Becoming more social[thus you should be approaching 50 girls daily]

2)or if you're trying to work on routines,calibrations,conversing skills,then 5-10 girls daily would be good.

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Why would you limit yourself to just approaching a couple of sets?
You wish to grow, you can only grow by a lot of ways. Approaching, getting social, keep talking .. grow grow grow.

More important LEARN.

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Make sure you ALWAYS approach the FIRST hot girl you see every day. Getting over that first one really really helps and puts you in a positive mood.

I will usually do 2-3 approaches on my lunchbreak, maybe another 1 on my way home, and 10-15 on Saturday and 10-15 Sunday, depending on if I'm teaching or not.

I find it's a balance between avoiding both:

1. Waiting too long for the perfect set ("she's not hot enough," "she's walking too fast," "she's on the phone," etc. just fucking try it!)

2. Opening for the sake of opening when you can't think of a single thing that actually makes her attractive, unique or interesting - then your opener just won't feel authentic.

Generally, if you see that stunning 10 and she looks like she's in a real rush and your heart starts racing, THAT'S the set that's gonna make you feel like a MAN for just TRYING, regardless of the outcome. You'd be surprised at how nice she probably is!

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@Blondguy-Great advise as usual.

Approaching the hottest girl,hottest set when logistics are too good would feel rewarding even if it doesnt go anywhere.

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What if I see a really really model-like hot girl? Should I still open her? What if I open and then I forget everything? Should I just leave?


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What if I see a really really model-like hot girl? Should I still open her? What if I open and then I forget everything? Should I just leave?
Look - you need to realise that a hot girls is only what you define. She's hot only if you make her hot if you decide that she's hot.

It's like the same "imagine a class room filled with people naked that way you can easily present your idea's.."

So just approach - it will help your approaches after that and normal things.

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@LyricalDream-Great point about looks and ratings.

@Peterfifer-If you viewed this model as a 5,you would'nt care about choking up.

But to go bacc to Blondguy's point,it's not but pulling the hottest girl instantaneously.

Since you're focus is on approaches & numbers of them,then you should be approaching everyone:be it an HB5 to HB-super model.

Just say hi good day and keep it moving[no strings attached]!

Undoubtedly,every one will respond to good day.

Getting a hi in return from a really hot chicc will boost your confidence unlike no other.

So dont look to game the 1st.hottest girl you see;just say hi.

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I'm a big fan of quantifying the approaches, Generating numbers and achieving goals which you are constantly setting is a great way to build your own feeling of success. But this needs to vary to your specific situation. consider your time constraints, 6 approaches in an hour gives you 10 minutes with each girl.

lunch breaks usually makes for a difficult time to do this, maybe 1-2? This would be a reasonable achievement in my opinion. It is good to focus so heavily on getting the results but don't be soooo focussed you lose sight of all the other important aspects of your life. Balance is the key. For example I'm about to go on lunch in 45 minutes, I'm specifically meeting a mate out (not single not interested in PUA) So my options are limited to a fly by approach on my way to the cafe, chatting up a waitress, or on my walk back to work i'd be happy with 1.. or being friday i've got tonight to do it whilst out... I'm adjusting my goals to the situation.

My point being quantifying is good.. however the actual number really needs to come from your own personal circumstances. Something you need to work out and stick too. No - one I believe can really tell you this.


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Man, you guys are approaching multiple girls in a day... damn... I need to step my game up. I only approach when I go out with my buddies, which is once a week about. (Cuz of college and trying to keep my GPA high this semester) You guys are approaching on the daily! Jeez... you think it's fine to approach on campus? 80% of people seem like there in a rush to get to there class... (Or that's me being AFC)


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