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OK let's assume you have built up enough attraction... because SHE asked you to hang out...
Why is she flaking on you?
Basically, as you know, women can go from hot to cold in an instant. Sunday night when she texted you to hang out she might have been feeling horny.
Now its been three days, and you've haven't contacted her between those days. Wednesday night rolls by and it's like.
'Hey it's Wednesday night. [You promised we could hang out and maybe get some sex]* Are you ready?'
*Square brackets is how she interprets the message.
What do you think she is going to do? This is simply bad timing on your part. Just like when you go for a kiss, it shouldn't be sudden and out of the blue. Just like a hook up you need to fill in the blank parts.
Text her something random, or call her up and goof around with random shit happening in your day. I've found when I've done stuff like this I was more likely to hook up with her. As long as you've not landed yourself in the friend zone its all to play for.
Also, why are you texting her? Quit this shit. Call her up. Plus, it's more likely to happen when you do.
Wow. that was actually helpful. I didn't expect that. thanks man. I really appreciate the feedback. I'm sure I've got some other stuff to say but I need to chew on that for a while. what you said makes sense
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