@Chel-More drama for you!!?

Write a post bro'.

@Minsok-I played it cool as possible.

Ended up deleting her # as you did with your flake.

This' about my 3 rd.flakey girl in a row(lol).

I really gotta come up with insights on how to minimize flaking,although it's not preventable.

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You minimize it by building comfort by fluffing on the phone for 20 minutes or so. Whoever said that was right.

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WOW MATE
U Shouldn't have called so many times! And i think you conveyed way too much interest you probably came off as a little bit needy.
I think you may have freaked her out too mate! If she's flaking fo real she's not gonna be like "OOH im so glad you came to my house and surprised me!!! That's soo sweet!" Ya kno wat i mean?

Another good point, going to her house was a wasted effort, it should have been obvious that it wasn't going to get her to change her mind. But I think K-loc realizes why it was wrong and we're just beating a dead horse now.

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@Minsok-I agree with you on fluff talking in order to build comfort.

I never did that.

I didnt want to risk getting her too comfortable with phone game that she doesnt see the need to meet.

So I kept the fluff to 5 min.[15 would've been good].

@BLOKE-I dont think that I communicated neediness.

I didnt have enough time to come off as needy(lol).

Remember,I met her today,try meet later same evening,she flaked.

Tried next day,she flaked.

So I dont think I even had enough days to become needy.

It might've freaked her out that I showed up at her house.

But remember she flaked on me twice prior,so she didnt flake because I showed up unannounced.

Thanks for the insights guys.

But I do believe my down fall was mismatch of social values.

If I'd fluffed talked a bit more on the phone with her as Minsok suggested,I would've been able to communicate that we both are on same level.

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good stuff, it's all about learning so you can improve when you put a problem up on here and you actually work through and get an answer, well its a bloody good feeling mate

It's evident you have learnt from this K, and what to do next time, well done.

Your generally a good PUA, so just keep going, experimenting!

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@BLOKE & Chel'-Im definitely a learner and I know to adopt and modify my game accordingly.

But it's very rare to be flaked on by a girl on vacation;I find those to be the easiest of targets ince they live some where else.

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We always assume this. This point has proven not to be the case, and maybe that's where we do go wrong sometimes, making assumptions and every individual is different, in a small or big way.

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@Chel'-Right about that.

There are exceptions to every rule.

I friggin' met one(lol).

Anyway,I'd deleted her # days ago and she's history.

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Well done, onto the next. I'm expecting a new post on some new HB10 over the next few days

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