Direct Game: Absolutely beautiful VS Really Cute



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PostPosted: Wed Jan 26, 2011 8:14 pm 
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I feel like saying "you're absolutely beautiful" helps you to stand from the other guy, but may sound a bit cheesy. It also puts them into an intense state of shock!

I feel like saying you're really cute helps you to seem more down to earth but creates less attraction.

I walk up, look them right in the eyes and say "I saw you from over there, . . . I had to come and tell you . . .You are . . .ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL.My name is (my name)" My delivery is superb!

What do you guys say when going direct?
So far I have:

Absolutely beautiful
Absolutely Stunning
Really Cute
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why dont you comment on things that are less common?

Im sure most HB's get that every other night from a variety of different guys..

ya know?

try perhaps comment on style?

Make up
Clothing?
accessories?
Hair?

Example:
" I couldnt help but notice you.. but you have the most gorgeous hair"
How do you do it?

just food for thought. im thinking about all this stuff myself too. Idea cool ;)


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I do only in the day time. Yea, I'm going to add a follow up phrase about "the way she carries herself" or "her style".

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I do only in the day time. Yea, I'm going to add a follow up phrase about "the way she carries herself" or "her style".
Angel eyes is talking about transition topics. If thats your opener, thats not direct, thats indirect.

So far I've used; cute, kind of cute and stunning. The results I have gotten is giggling, shock and blushing. Only 2 day 2's, and now I have 1 HB10 that I would consider a great friend :)

What kind of reaction did u get with absolutely beautiful? I cringe when i hear that phrase. It sounds good, but something inside me agree's with angel eyes on that phrase.


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What kind of reaction did u get with absolutely beautiful? I cringe when i hear that phrase. It sounds good, but something inside me agree's with angel eyes on that phrase.
Same reaction as you. Giggling and shock. Remember, openers are more about your tonality and body language than anything else.

My transition "So what are doing out here/ at the mall besides talking to cute guys like myself?"

This line has worked 100% of the time. I get a nice good laugh. That's where I begin screening. Saying stunning also got good results Saying really cute seems to normal to m, but if you guys are getting success with it then it must work.

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For direct game I would do it a 2way - my game differs a lot from daygame & nightgame and thus so does my approach. When I direct approach during the day - I'm more likely to comment on how they look

"Wow you look great today - I'm wondering if it'll be the same tomorrow"
"I just had to come over to you... and say... damn girl, your hair is so amazing - it really compliments your amazing smile"

While actually in club gaming - it's a lot harder to just compliment on how they look because every guy is doing that. If you really would like to go direct game in night clubs - you need to be sexual on a direct basis. So no dodging with sentences.

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If they're like a 9/10 then absolutely stunning - followed by some comment on something more specific like their hair, clothing, style, walk, aura/vibe, etc.

If they're lower, then really cute is fine enough, again a follow-up comment makes it more genuine.

Try to avoid "what are you up to" as a transition question if possible.

Try

1. Cold reads - jokingly or serious
2. Questions as statements
3. Launch straight into a random story about something that just happened to you

+ Keep it flirty, fun and sexual - you've stopped her in her tracks to hit on her for fuck's sake!

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I would like to know the worst result that anyone has had with direct game.
Just for my own amusement.

My 2c, when I first started I stuffed up my approach, and the girl ended up with a WTF look on her face. hahaha
Thats my worst direct approach result so far.


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I would like to know the worst result that anyone has had with direct game.
Our head coach got attacked by a women who apparently though he was "soliciting her for sex"

One time he shouted "I like your bum!" and she turned back in horror and shouted back "MY MUM'S DEAD YOU ASSHOLE!"

We both got detained by the police for 30 minutes at a tube station when we were filming approaches because apparently there was a complaint that we were "harassing" women.

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As a female friend of mine said to me today "I'd rather be weird than boring!"

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I would like to know the worst result that anyone has had with direct game.
Our head coach got attacked by a women who apparently though he was "soliciting her for sex"

One time he shouted "I like your bum!" and she turned back in horror and shouted back "MY MUM'S DEAD YOU ASSHOLE!"

We both got detained by the police for 30 minutes at a tube station when we were filming approaches because apparently there was a complaint that we were "harassing" women.

:-)

As a female friend of mine said to me today "I'd rather be weird than boring!"
WoooooooW! hahaha


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I would like to know the worst result that anyone has had with direct game.
Hard to say really. I had girls slap, punch, kick, spit at me for the stuff I had said in direct game. But this is the punishment I get for being a cocky ass bastard tho.


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lol my thread has officially been hijacked

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Been wanting to do some direct game, but can't bring myself to do so.

Maybe it's because HB's are usually with groups.


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Been wanting to do some direct game, but can't bring myself to do so.

Maybe it's because HB's are usually with groups.
Direct game requires balls pure and simple. Because otherwise you are not going to be able to pull it off. If you are serious about direct game I suggest you start small and work your way up. Say direct things to girls you already know to start and then work on saying direct things to girls you cold approach and then work on direct openers. Also if your target is in a group direct game works more in your favor actually as it shows you have confidence and the girls in the group are going to dig that.


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Do not try to compliment her with that kind of words. Some women are really used to it. Especially the hot and sexy ones.

And another point: do not introduce your name unless she asks you for it.

Even though you are going direct, do it in a way that wouldn't really trip a woman's "bullshit radar". Every woman has this thing built-in to them. And it always functions automatically.

Instead of complimenting her, try to notice the things around her like her clothing, hair or how she smiles, etc.

Do not be cocky in doing so, some women might not like it. Do it in a friendly manner, and with confidence.

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