Whats the law on this or unwritten rules as have kissed a girl in pub by judging that she wanted me to (not verbally) and get the same feelings about a woman at work but without her saying yes beforehand she could quite easily turn round and say 'eek he forced himself on me'- any help on testing this risky situation to avoid any wrong doing without actually asking her?

Just grow some balls and get some game.

I could make little sense of that stream of text, but I suppose you're asking how to non-verbally tell when a girl is open to being kissed.

There is no 100% test, but here are some things to look out for:

- She's comfortable holding extending eye contact. You'll learn to noticed 'the look'.

- She's comfortable with your hands in her hair.

- She grabs your hand at any point.

- She rests her head on your shoulder.

My personal favorite method is to throw a finger under her chin and lift it a bit, forcing her eyes to look into mine. If she's willing to kiss you, she won't flinch or fidget as you do this.

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Could make little sense of it? The meaning is obvious - what would a cave man do? He would just take it, not post silly questions on a forum. The question is complete madness. Think about it. That answer your question pal?

Hey Mr Leek with so much confidence and assuredness around women it sounds like you dont even need this forum. Dont 'pal' me again or i will be asking chief for advice on correcting your attitude- do i make myself clear?

Correcting my attitude? How do your propose to do that then? Pal.

You're over-analyzing the situation, just talk to her, and when you see 3 IOI's, well take a risk. You might crash, but that doesn't mean you have to burn too bad, get up dust yourself off, smile, and move on.

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Read the forum rules Mr leeky or prepare to be banned

Might have guessed loud mouthed northerner full of blind confidence fair enough mr leeky pants. read your other posts now know where your coming from.

Stay out of town tonight

Zip your lips chief.

Come on, break it up. Calm down, and if you can't, at least take it to pm, no need to go so far off topic.

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