hey yall
im textmessaging this hb7
She said to me im attractive,,
i said to her after she said she thinks im attractive

me: "I can tickle you with my tongue"

she exactly replied
her: "Aaah yes and how do you think your gonna do that? =D
xx"

I need a good reply,, plz help me out =)

"That's a secret I only reveal on special occasions and for special women."

Im new, so i could be wrong...but i think you stepped outta bounds with your comment.

Your response to the girl should have been like this...

HB: "I think your attractive/cute/handsom/etc"
YOU: "I feel good too, i think its important for people to reflect how they feel."

After this point it might be good to neg her about some way she dresses, or say something like

YOU: "You know im not that easy, you cant just compliment me and have your way with me."

Since its text maybe throw a on the end of the second line...this is a text way to show humor.

After she responds, you might wana try and get her to go out somewhere. say something like

YOU: "I'm gonna go out to xxxxx, i think you should meet up with me there my fingers are tired im gonna go."

Then you do not respond to her texts, you go were-ever u planned and meet up with her (arrange something for that day or the next)...do not call, text back etc til after you meet her there and she shows.

In any case thats what i think you should have done, by responding the way you did you opened up a shit test yourself without her having too. sorry dude just my opinion.

I think ur kinda rite.

when she said i was attractive i responded with something like "its about time u notice".
and she responded "noo i had seen that right away =p
xx"
So i thought there's no need for dhv nor negging.
and i didnt know what to say
so i was like what the heck, so i responded "i can tickle you with my tongue"

but i dont know how to go on right now =)

newsflash
what to reply to her last answer? she definitely wants some,, shall i rush in and get the cheese or what. no huh? how to spice her up a lil more ?
I tend to reply something like: "I think your very special. I just dont know if your sexy enough."
is it a goodone ?

me: "I can tickle you with my tongue"

her: "Aaah yes and how do you think your gonna do that? =D
xx"

me: "That's a secret I only reveal on special occasions and for special women." (thx snubby)

her: "Hmm do you think im a special woman maybe ?
xx"

Qualify her dude, That what you need to do. It seems like you made yourself the prize possession, That good now qualify her, Ask her "IDK, Let finds out What are 3 things that makes your special for me to know?"

You mean make her qualify herself. Qualifying her is a bad thing to do and is what you did by telling her you would tickle her with your tongue (Ka is right, you typically make them work for that a lot harder).

I would say something like, "Special....I wouldn't go THAT far, but I can stand you "

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I agree with this approach. Throw it back to her.
An alternative is, "I need to know you better to answer that." This opens the door to getting together to get to know each other better. Move from cyber to real life and go from there. Then at some point she'll bring up the same question, "so now do you think I'm special?" and you can go to the "tell me three things unrelated to how you look that you think make you special." Let her convince you.

Rye Lee's approach is too neg for my taste, but it does work with many girls. It just isn't the path I like to go down. Different strokes . . .