Ok, this girl I met about 2 years ago, we chatted, then me n my friends ended up taking off so never got a chance to close or anything. At the time I called our mutual friend to try & get her number, she was no help.

Just bumped into her the other night, she recognized me and was saying hi. I didn't recognize her at all but figured it out when she said from where. We talked for like 30 secs then I ran off to my other friends. Anyway, I was bouncing around the bar all night and didn't really see her much and when I did I was always taking off with someone else so never talked to her. Plus I was waaaaaasted!

What's the best way to try & get ahold of her. I was thinking about stalking out our friend(girl, who might actually like me) to get her number and just not taking no for an answer this time.

What up???

don't 'stalk' bro it's weak. Why don't you just have a REAL conversation with the girl when you meet her and ask her for her number YOURSELF. If there's really no other way, you can ask her friend to send a text saying you want to get in touch. There's no magic to it, don't overthink things.

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Optimistic?

A big part of PU is to not be the one chasing the girl as this will affect your game so badly, you will be nervous, investing in her hugely, STALKING , needy, desperate etc etc

If I was you I would simply obtain her contact details in a least 'stalkish' ways as possible, from their you could invite her out, get her and her friends to meet you and your friends. Something like that

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But what if her friend doesn't WANT to help me out bc she's jealous??? That's the only reason I'll need to push so hard really. I'm not gonna see this chick for probably a year or two otherwise and I figure I'd take the initiative and go for it instead of saying "o please could you give me your friends #? No...ok that's fine"

check out if you have more than 1 mutual friend on facebook, this can be done without adding her as a friend, thus she'll never know, if you do have more than 1, work your way through a different source than the jealous female friend.

thats one way of going about it atleast, good luck

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