Shit Test or Genuine Disinterest?



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almoody6872
PostPosted: Wed Jan 26, 2011 4:23 pm 
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I asked this before but I didn't word it correctly:

Daygame on a HB 9. I went direct and made her laugh twice with cocky funny. We chatted for about 2 minutes. I started qualifying and she was preening her hair and stuff. I told her I would see her around and went in for the hug and she says
"I don't hug." She was smiling pretty hard, but she did seem serious. I went to give her I high five. She put her hand up then I left her hanging and I said "I don't shake hands!" and gave her fist dap. We went our separate ways and she was still smiling.

Was this a TEST or did I simply not build enough value for the hug?

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Definitely a test, especially if she was smiling. Please tell me you at least got her number.

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Nope. I thought that it was a Genuine IOD and that she was only smiling and laughing to be polite.

So, when should I not go for the number or day 2 close?

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Honestly? Never.

What's the worst that can happen?

She says no.

Woopteefuckingdoo.

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What if it starts to feel awkward, like she wants me to leave, but she is being polite?

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Show her your dick. 8)

I think you know the answer to this... if it is very clear she is completely uninterested and you're getting bad vibes, close it up and leave. No point in lingering, or scrambling to fix things. Approaches fail, bottom line.

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lol nah I think i show her my balls :P .


Just to make sure I understand this:

1. No matter what, go for the close.
2. Unless she CLEARLY doesn't want me to be there, I should stay and continue gaming.
3. I shouldn't be concerned if she's just being polite. If she is smiling or laughing, then I should assume it is because I have built attraction.

Does this sound right?

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As for 1+2, I usually push until it's very clear that I'm not getting anywhere. You could keep trying, but at that point I feel like there are a hundred more interesting things I can be doing. Don't look at it as failure, just experience.

For your third point, you're spot on.

In your situation, I definitely think you could have gotten her number. Regardless, it was a good experience that will help you in the future.

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