Hey guys. I'm not even sure if i'm as fortunate as an AFC

I'm 21 and I have never had a proper kiss, been in a relationship, and, obviously, haven't had sex, and as my life goes by not having experienced these things i feel like my window of opportunity to understand people is closing and I have an inferiority complex to other successful people.

And, to top it off, i'm suffering from Oneitis with someone I haven't really made any progress with for the past few months.

Don't really know where to start, apart from admitting the fact that I'm socially retarded.

Hey man, i feel you.
if you want something to get started on i'd really recommend the mystery method for learning the basics of approaching women, its simple to understand and apply, and will work wonders for your confidence after a few successful approaches, have a mate with you when you go out for support, and remember if they respond negatively: they're not rejecting YOU they're rejecting your approach!

credit where its due, don't know who said it first, but that that line is truly golden!

good luck getting started mate!!

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"seduction isn’t making someone do what they don’t want to do. Seduction is enticing someone into doing what they secretly want to do already".
-Waiter Rant

Mystery Method isn't simple. And before you begin memorizing the stupidest things and wearing leotards with jingle bells attached to them, I suggest you just begin talking to people and working on communication first. PM me for specifics, but there's nothing else you really have to do at your stage but to become fluent in communication.

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For all you play it safers:
"Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new."

- Albert Einstein quotes.

If the biggest nerd of the 19th century can do it, so can you.

I disagree with you here mate, but it might be because i wasn't clear enough on what i laid out, what i mean was to take the approach and open part of MM, opinion openers worked wonders for me in the beginning and still do, just start a conversation, keep it going for a few minutes and eject with a "it was nice meeting you"
im not much for peacocking either

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"seduction isn’t making someone do what they don’t want to do. Seduction is enticing someone into doing what they secretly want to do already".
-Waiter Rant

Oneitis usually does happent to someone who does not really meet many girls. Inferiority towards other people is experience by the majority of the people on tis forum tbh.

It will usually change as you get older and experience more things, also if you do manage to get any results with girls then you will see a change in your opinion on your self

Welcome and good luck

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"Do I look like a gentleman to you in this shirt and these pants?"

"I know you from some place."