So there's this chick I have realy fallen in love with... We were at same class during high school etc and we were rly interested about each others. Now few years later I still cant stop thinking about her, we didnt meet for like 2 years and didnt keep in close touch for 4 years or so but we have been chatting on facebook alot etc and she auctually told me that she still loves me (oh ho cute :3).

So how I should get to touch with her? I have been thinking of just asking her for coffee or something but that would turn out abit akward since we didnt meet up for so many years and I am not realy best at making up conversations.. :/ Would a club night with some old class mates from high school that i have kept in touch? Would propable make it abit less akward and being drunken shouldnt be bad thing either :>.

And no, I am not just looking for random sex with her, I wanna go long way with her.

There is realy something with this girl, I cant act normaly when she's even in same room with me. And no, I am not a nerdy guy who is scared of girls, just scared of this specific one :3

Any advices are welcome.

Or auctually no, dont tell me to just "forget her" because I just CANT... Been trying that for ages but it just doesnt work.

Sorry my bad english, I tiered so cant realy pay too much attention to this post now :/

Smileys? Ugh. Anyway. If she "loves" you, asking her to coffee should be fine. Do it somewhat later in the night so you can change venues to a bar if things start to get stale or you need the drinks. Don't waste your time inviting other people, you can use that as a backup if she won't meet you one on one.

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31 and still figuring it out.

Hey man if you are so sure that she is "in love" with you, there is no need to hold back and try to find excuse that you two should hang out with each other, you should just go and ask her out on a date, be it breakfast, lunch, dinner, coffee, as long as you know how to date properly. It is gonna be fine because you already hold her attraction. Just ask her out and dont screw up. I prefer breakfast/lunch/coffee though and you can easily follow up with some other activities on the spot

Hey champ.. You need a different mindset right now.

She tells you that she still loves you "I want to go out with you again, you can have me if you want".

If she loves you, i would assume you been together quite abit, hence YOU ARE GOOD FOR HER, otherwise she wouldnt love you!

Reading your post it seems like YOU dont think that you are good enough for her. Of couse you are! She likes you, she likes your personality, you're a fit! No need to be nervous! Its sound kinda clichy, but just be yourself? Yourself was the one she felt in love with.

Of course you should be aware of not starting to be too clingy and so on. Just BELIEVE that SHE wants you! BELIEVE IT! Youre a fuckin' ten dude! Go get her.

And like what the other dude is telling you.. The place and when and where doesnt matter, just have fun. Just be honest and openminded!

I wish you the best of luck!

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- You miss 100% of the changes you dont take.

Yeah... this isn't the most fucked up relationship ever. It doesn't really sound like a relationship yet anyway.

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31 and still figuring it out.