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If it would be possible to get get back to your place, pick somwhere close and try to fuck her. She sounds really interested and there's no point waiting to try on the second date, the sooner you do it the better.
You dont have to be so hasty.. this could fk up everything
It's not being hasty. I'll explain in a minute why I think you should be fast but first...
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I bet its been a long time for AdamThomas, haha.
Just try not to be too quite at the movies, touch her. Regarding the pooling, make sure to tease her abit, and also what the other one said.. Make her teach you how to be better.. Then you're actually playing together! And thats important.
It's true. It's been a whole day since I last had sex with my girlfriend (who by the way I fucked on the first date). Boohoo. I can't believe you're taking the piss when you say playing pool is the important part, lol...
Anyway guys, I'll explain more what I meant. Of course you should never be desperate for sex, that will definately fuck things up. You should however always be aiming to get the lay as soon as possible. You ask any guy who is decent with women and he will tell you this. When you sleep with them quickly it gets rid of a lot of problems:
- she won't be worried about you lying and just using her for sex
- she won't be using you to go on loads of pointless dates that lead to nothing but an empty wallet and maybe a peck on the cheek
- you will not be LJBF'd
Have you ever felt like the girl has all the power? As if you're doing all the work and she's just playing games with you? That all goes away after you've fucked them. Also have you ever heard guys say that it's better to be put into the position of lover rather than boyfriend? As in being someone she wants to have sex with rather than someone she wants to take her on a lot of dates and make him wait? It's so true. If you don't fuck her soon you'll just be an orbiter, someone to give her validation while she's sucking some other guy's cock.
Here's an article by 60 years of challenge that I found on fastseduction.com that I think explains what I'm getting at here:
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All credit to BradP on this one
This is a topic I will need to explore further. These are my first notes on it.
Guys love to talk about their Rotation and Harems
News Flash: Girls have the same thing, only different positions are available
- Long Term Validation Roles: The Orbiter, The Guy who is secretly in Love with her
- Short Term Validation Roles: New Guys she
met and gave her number to, Myspace friends
Guys with a 1itis problem have most likely been assigned to a Long Term Validation role they are not happy with
Guys who can attract a lot of girls when they go out but can't seem to get girls to meet them out have probably been assigned to a short term validation role
BradP recently talked about how girls build their social network and why
- They need 123,000 friends on MySpace
- They still want to be friends after a break up
- She will try to turn you into an orbiter, even though she knows you like her
- She will flirt with you for an hour and give her number even though she has no intention of meeting up with you
Women look to preserve every relationship, whereas a guy is like
Who the fuck» cares, this is gay...I don't want to be friends?
However...
If you turn out to be a really low value guy (a social liability), refuse to take the role assigned to you, or try to move up a spot (Orbiter---> Top Alpha guy she Fucks) she has no problem cutting you off.
i.e. trying to give her an ultimatum
Orbiter: If you don't call me back, or meet me this time , then I'm sorry but I can't hang out with you anymore.
See if she sheds even one tear.
So when you meet a woman she may be considering you for an open position in her rotation
But which one?
Case study: My friend Danielle B.
Let's say you meet Danielle at a bar, and she is attracted to you.
You get her number and look to start your Timebridge Game.
Here is her current rotation as told to me
1. TOP SPOT
New Alpha guy she went home with the same night & now LOVES: Brad
2. Long Term FB who was an alpha guy she fucked 3 months age: Steve
3. X-Boyfriend who she still fucks once in a while: Chris
4. Guy she goes on fancy dates with but doesn't hook up with: Kevin
5. Guy from work that is in LOVE with her: Tom
6. Long Term Orbiter #1: Liam
7. Long Term Orbiter #2: Position Available (ask for an application)
8. Gay friend & shopping buddy: Jimmy
9. This weeks New Validation Guy #1 who calls her: Tim
1o. This weeks New Validation Guy #2 who is trying to get her to meet up: Phillip
If you are really good, she MAY consider you for an Orbiter role to help her with favors and listen her whine about what a jerk Steve is
If not, she will keep you around for a week or two as a low ranking validation CHODE who sends her amusing texts (Hey Nerd) and tries every trick in the book to get her to meet out.
Don't worry there will be 2 new validation guys ready to take your place should you get tired of all the BS.
She is going out again tonight.
What you want is her #1 Alpha spot.
All the more reason to try and close her the same night and bump Brad off the top spot.
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