Okay soI have sociology with this girl, I find really attractive. She sits two seats up from me and I want to think of a girl way of starting a conversation with her. I see her notice me when I walk in the class each day, so im just wondering if anyone has something to help me get to know her better. Thanks in advance

One thing I always try to do at the start of a semester at uni is sit in the middle of the class toward the front.
For some reason most HB's sit in this area, and it provides for the perfect opportunity to open. If your class requires group assignments your set all you need to do is open with a simple "hey let's be in a group together". Pull other girls into your group try to avoid guys obviously.

If however your class doesn't have group projects. A good way to open would be to wait until after class, and do an over the shoulder "hey, what do you think of the class?" (eye contact and a smile you know the body language..). Continue with random banter.

Or if a girl has really caught my eye and I must talk to her! I'll get to class early and steal a seat next to her. During class opportunities always come up for me to talk to the girl. "Hey, what's the homework for tonight... "hmm that seems complicated. Give me your number I'll txt you later tonight when I'm stuck on pr 3."

People have very large personal bubbles in the area I'm at so I don't know if taking a seat next to a stranger would work too well, it's something that noone has ever done in any of my classes and I feel like it wouldn't work out too well for me to be the first one to try it.

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Redman, true but then again it really depends on your frame. I got to a uni with 4000 students, and am constantly running into people I know. The reason for this is because I'm constantly putting myself into situations where I am talking to new people.

My frame when I walk into class is "I'm the fucking shit, and any hb I sit next to is fucking lucky." I've moved to sit next to random chicks I hadn't met yet, and it's really improved my social proof on campus. I come into class with an alpha frame and really just don't give a fuck about whose seat I take. So within the first weeks of the semester I'm in a ton of social circles on campus.

Today I sat next to her, she came in kinda late so didn't get to talk much saw her glancing at me and smiled at me a few times. Im wanting to go for it but kinda nervous if shes single or not. I dont want it to be akward the next couple of months in schoolif she plays me hard.

It really has no relevance. The game you run on girls with boyfriends is just a bit different. There is no time to worry about if this girl has a boyfriend or not. This is an excuse I used to use to justify not talking to a girl. Just talk to her casually about stuff going on in class, but seriously open her next class.

If you sit next to her all semester and never talk to her you'll just become that weird guy who sat next to her but never spoke a word. Even if you talk to her and she does have a boyfriend. She'll most likely have a few hb friends in her social circle. Be the cool interesting guy in her "whatever" class. Chances are she'll prolly invite you out and you'll have a shit load of brownie points with her girl friends.

Just open her with simple class related questions. You want to break the ice when you're in a classroom setting, so just break the ice with a friendly question or smalltalk.

I go to a community college right now but I'll be at a normal University in the fall, but my frame isn't very alpha in the classroom.

I just find that opening to a female in any class would be really forced and just wouldn't work, plus I'm kind of misanthropic so I'm not the kind of person that cares to know a fuck load of people. I do however enjoy club settings where you don't really know the people there and probably won't ever see or talk to them again and because it's a lot easier to game on women in clubs for me.

Another thing is that I live in a really small town and during my public school education here I already have my image set as the fat, weird, loser in a lot of peoples minds. Ever since high school I've been physically training myself so I look nothing how I did in high school and talking to people is retardedly easy but I hesitate to really try and open to females at my college because they all know a bunch of people that don't really like me and I think that might not work in my favor.

I feel like I'm stuck needing to go to clubs in Tampa and Orlando to pick up women until I'm in an entirely new city next year where there won't be any people with terrible first impressions of me.

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I think in this scenario is not looking for the best opener yet, The biggest problem i see there is you're getting too nervous when approaching the girl.

Try practicing getting rejected and you will soon find out there is nothing to be scared of. Best piece of advice i can give anyone in this scenario is go up and start a conversation with 50 random people (guys and girls) at your local shopping center.

The confidence of knowing it doesn't matter if she rejects you is what will make her go for you in the end.

Openers - make fun of something trivial like her pen or handwriting.
Cocky funny works best for me.

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just walk up as you are leaving one day, even if she's with a friend, tell her that your teacher reminds you of a celebrity...

You: "That guy reminds me of Alfred Molina...you know the villain from Spiderman 2? Do you guys get that too?"

Yes:
Her: "Totally! I don't think he's that evil though"
You: (neg opportunity) "Hmm you sound kind of naive. I'm 95% sure he's a dick at parties"

No:
Her: "Nah, doesn't remind me of him at all."
You: "What?! He looks so much like him. I bet you're terrible at remembering faces."

This is followed by "DAMN you are sexy. Fuck me. Now."

I read a really sweet article about approaching girls on college campus and classes, helped me some

http://collegeflirt.net/