Hey guys, I'm trying to set some high quality goals to measure my improvement but I still find it difficult to decide what I should be striving for, so I'd like you're thoughts on this....

My game isn't too bad, but I would say I don't push myself enough, and cdefinitely haven't got the results I want up to now. When getting into the game I came across work that talks about Choosing Wisely, which I think personally is very good material. However having this knowledge has perhaps been a bit of a blessing and a curse. It's not enough for me to just pull a girl because she's hot. I want a high self esteem women, that is also intelligent and sexual, as apposed to any old club bird that's cute with a banging pair of tits. As a result I've never gone through the kind of 'PUA gluttony' period a lot of guys go through, of banging and seducing every hot bird they see just because they can. Nor have I really wanted to just go and bang 'any' hottie. So there have been a lot of opportunities I've squandered, i.e not pursued certain women enough because they didn't really fit high self esteem criteria. I've had flings with girls that I found attractive but none of them were really HSE and found my time with them fairly unsatisfying.

Now I'd still say I'm AFC and need to work on my pick up skill, though I'd certainly say I do better than average. My current social goals are as follows;

*Have a lifestyle conducive to pick up i.e organise social events at least once per month to invite friends new and old and build big social circle that consist of at least 10 gorgeous women I get on well with and see regularly

*Have sexual relationship with 2 gorgeous high self esteem women and bring them through all orgasms I know are possible

These are my goals and I'm quite happy with them but there's not really much I've touched on with regards to cold approach pick up. I'd like to be able to say I'm a PUA but what do you guys consider PUA level skills when picking up off cold approach??

Would it be something like, consistently getting 7 solid number closes out of 10 approaches in daygame? Or better than that??

What about nightgame? Is consistently getting 2 k-closes and 5-10 numbers per night PUA worthy cold approach game?

I'd really like everyones opinion on this to help me set my goals. A lot of stuff I hear now is more about building a lifestyle and having big time social proof, which I think is excellent, and perhaps the easy more normal way of running game but I feel there is still a lot of value in doing the scarier thing that is cold approach during the day and night. I just wonder what you guys deem a good goal to aspire to in cold approach?

I know it's not about being outcome dependent and it's about letting whatever happens, happen, but there must be a point where you deem a certain type of consistent results, good, and PUA level? I'm just trying to figure out what point that is.

p.s apologies if this is a bit of a vague question. I can explain if you need more detail.

I really think what constitutes as solid game is dependent on your agenda in the game. For example, if your main objective is just getting laid by hot women, the rate of consistant same night lays and day 2 closes with HBs would be what you measure your "level of game" with. So, setting a goal of getting 10 numbers a night, in this instance, would be a waste of time.

Fair point Mr_Amazing, thanks for your thoughts. I'm not interested in same night lays and just banging a women cause she's hot, but I am interested in setting up multiple sexual relationships with hot, high self esteem women. So I really gotta focus on quality over quantity....

Perhaps I need to build the foundation of having a lifestyle conducive to having these types of women in my life. Then go from there.

As far as cold approach is concerned perhaps solid game for me is simply number closing hotties and building solid contacts.

This. You also say you've missed out on the "PUA gluttony" and that it's most likely playing a factor in your game. I think feeling comfortable in the PUA position is pretty important, so dont just game the girls that you think are perfect.