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PostPosted: Sun Jan 23, 2011 3:54 pm 
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Hey! Wasn't sure where to post this as it's not an 'exclusive relationship' yet

So I've been seeing this girl once/twice a week for 3 months now. Been going well, she's fun, smart etc.

I took her out last night with my friends for the first time and it went awesome until we got back to her place.

I was holding off the kissing her vibe which I usually do to build a bit of sexual tension b4 I go for it which she usually loves, but I could sense she seemed irritated with me all of a sudden but still polite. I said watsup? to which she responded "U never kiss me, I always have to kiss you first". to which i responded that she was being silly cause I have kissed first many times(truth). She played the whole 'can't kiss me now' card so I just said 'ok fine' and said i'm going to sleep if she's gonna play silly mind games. She eventually gave in and we had sex.

But the next morning, i could tell she wasn't her usual chatty self. I pointed it out to her to which she responded she didn't want to revisit the topic. I didn't react, stayed calm but i could tell something wasn't right (1st red flag).

What do u guys make of this situation? Should I:

1. Call her 2nite and find out what the REAL issue is? ---> maybe cause we haven't had the 'exclusive' talk yet. I am def interested but find it hard for me to bring it up.

2. Just not contact her for a lil while

3. some other option which i haven't thought about :)

Thanks guys, much appreciated!


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 24, 2011 7:48 pm 
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Someone plz help me out.... haven't heard from her in 2 nights which is unlike her.

Think she's playing the 'waiting game' with me & don't know what to do, If i give in and send her a 'watsup?' type message I mind risk sounding totally AFC.

I think she also has a past of having 2 LT abusive boyfriends so think she's a lil emotionally unavailable.

do I back off & wait till she contacts me? Is this just a small issue or a sign of bad things to come and i should just cut my losses?

Vry confused! Thanks


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 24, 2011 8:24 pm 
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