Stop going for HB 6's and start going for HB 9's and 10's if you are gaming.
Unless you sound like you go for the slightly less attarctive and insecure girls. If so then nerves is something they would have in front of an attarctive guy. Just like less attarctive men going for hot girls. So see what I mean?
Because the hot girls I know, met or have seen on TV etc etc

certainly do not get nervous in front of hot guys, opposite in fact. Can't see how EVERY girl would be like this with you, not even the majority.
Good luck Clooney
GO get them bitches...