Background check: I am still fairly a newbie at pickup but have read alot of material. I've used some techniques at house parties only so far but they have been successful with a minimum of a number close. I dress well, look clean and have a good sense of humour.
Okay, So last night was yet another 18th birthday party round a mates house.
Girls (ALOT) from outside town were staying for the night as my m8 knew them*I fucking know right!*. So I decided last night was gonna be a good night for me as parties are usually easier to open girls at due to the booze + party vibe in the house.
Il show you the whole day.
3pm - I arrive with this girl that has been all over me for the past few weeks (social value?). Only to realise that hardly any1 was at the house and the only reason why I was asked to come at that time was to help out his parents with the party (we are close friends). So there is Girl #1 (HB7) + Girl #2(HB8) whom of which have boyfriends and those BF's are very close friends of mine. And the girl that was all over me. We start talking yada yada.
5pm - First few guests arive, and we decided that we might need more booze as 40+ ppl expected.. So I got in a car and drove down to the stores + picked friends up which took around an hour or so bcoz of the shops not having the specific booze we wanted. (drove to 4 different stores!).
6:15pm - Got back. Ppl from out of town were here. Food nearly gone already + ppl already drunk and talking. I Thought that before I start gaming, I need some booze in me to relieve some of the AA that might occur. Open a few sets, nothing interesting.. lacked interesting things to talk about.. just talked about where they were from, how they knew birthday boy, I think the booze made me forget good topics to talk about
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6:30pm - Some FUCKING HOTT ASS Asian girls (HB11) walk in and start greeting everyone.. They start saying "Hi" repeatedly while turning their head and when they saw me they said "ooh". I didnt even know these girls. Why the hell did they give a "ooh" and sigh of dissapointment? I was dressed well, infact other girls said I had a good fashion sense and that I looked good.. another girl even shouted that im "Hot" (Wonders of booze eh?
).. So I couldnt understand why.
Things then started to get worse as we all laid and sat on a m8's bed (bout 8 ppl in a double bed). The girl that used to like me but started to hate me then told the hot girls that "I had some asian fetish", which as I know from experience, puts them off. Instantly. You could tell by their facial experessions that they saw me as some shallow guy who was only interested in asian girls.. This is where I decided to pull the plug and go to a different room and game other girls.
7pm - Still annoyed that I couldnt bag those (HB11's). I decided to do the next best thing.. get smashed out of my head, which was a complete stupid fucking idea... when I got the effects my friends told me that I was flipping out to Dubstep music and dancing like a complete retarded monkey who didnt know how to dance.
Sometime after 7:30 - Still drunk and my memory is kinda fuzzy here but I remember "Gaming" a girl in a bathtub + making so many stupid mistakes.. one of which I tried to kino escalate by touching her hair but missed (tipsy) and got my finger in her mouth.. thats all I can remember in that time period or maybe I dreamt that, I dunno..
10pm - Girl that was all over me was slagging me off to other girls saying that I was desperate and that I try to get with any girl + I have an "asian fetish". Got pissed at her but didnt feel like taking out my anger out at anyone as its a friends birthday party and no1 really needs the drama.
10:30pm - Girl that I've liked for a while joins the party. Because shes basically a HB10, she was swarmed by a bunch of tipsy guys trying to impress her. I decided to be the "different one" and not pay attention to her while talking to some other girls.. When I finally see her, Indstead of being like the other guys I noticed that she had a stain on her shirt and pointed it out to her (Neg??) Then said something about washing clothes then moved on. However, my little trick proved failure as she ended up getting it off with some douche in someones bed... some other guys cockblock and she walks out without doing anything but make out. 30 fucking minutes later its the same thing but different guy. This really made me see the slutty side of her and I dont want anything to do with her anymore.
11:30pm - House gets wayyy to noisy as some gatecrashers enter the party.. Stepdad of birthday boy kicks out everyone that wasnt staying over the night. So that left only a few girls that wer availible. oh. and all of which wer HB5 at best...
12am - This one particular HB5 was constantly on me the whole night.. infact just now shes been sending me heart messages on facebook. TBH, I didnt want to get anywhere with her that night as I was annoyed I wasnt able to successfully game well enough to half PUA standard that night, so I felt that just hanging round with my friends was enough for the night, rather than bothering with the HB5 which I am currently trying to get rid of... ¬_¬
1am - Not much happens, just talk to the HB5 for abit. Just a casual conversation.
2am - Watch 500 days of summer with bunch of m8's
3:30am? - Drama starts. The girl that I liked had a brother at the party and started calling her a slut infront of everyone (he was still drunk), I did everything in my power not to laugh, was VERY hard. This is why..
HB10: We wer just kissing!
Brother: What type of fucking kissing, Dick as pussy kissiing or what!!?!
M8: LOOOOOOOOOOOOOL
HB10: NOO, stop thinking im some slut! im still a virgin!!(About to cry)
Brother: Virgin my ass, you nearly got laid with 2 different guys.
Me: tbh, *brother* you have a fair point to care but your not doing it in the right way, basically calling her a slut isnt really helping anyone.
Brother: Stay the fuck out of this! you would fuck *HB10* anyday...
Me: ¬_¬
HB10: *Goes on about her story etc etc*
After that some more drama arose, with her friends etc blah blah...
Decided to get some rest.
Next morning, I decided to fuck off home.
Review:
- Entered party ready but too early.
- Didnt hook the girls when opening the sets.
- Failed Kino.
- Lesser Social Proof than begun with.
- Found out girl I liked is basically a slut.
- Danced like a tard
- Failed to get in a good conversation with the HB11's
- Today(day after party), I gained some facebook adds from lots of girls, however im sure they only remember my "asian fetish" + stupid fail dancing.
Pros from the night:
1. Gained very little confidence
2. Learned not to drink too much
3. When gaming girls, try to keep friends away from them
4. I now know the importance of Isolate!
Cons from the night:
1. Lesser social value.
2. Failed to game and others saw this
3. Labelled as some creepy guy who likes asians
4. No number close.
5. Drunk too much
6. Attempted to dance while drunk, which proved to fail. miserably
7. Saw girl that I liked, getting off with some douch
8. Dissapointment in myself.
CHAT