So i'm short, and when i mean short i mean 5ft3. Im heading to university in a matter of 4 months and have been perfecting my game and all, but 1 restriction i always face with is my height, it seems like a permanent DLV, and if i initiate a set with any guys, they will take me down by stating my small-ness. Im quite loud and confident however i have a problem being alpha with my height. How do i change this?

Ever heard of Tom Cruise ?

Definitely alpha, and only 5'6" (I believe)

Watch his body language, his expressions and vocal tone. Not the 'brightest spark in the box' but definitely alpha (in my opinion)

T.P

Being alpha doesn't make a girl want to fuck you, trying to "be alpha" is try hard, forget about it. The only way it can be a DLV is if you see it as a DLV. I really don't give a fuck about being short, I'm ony 5'3" myself and it doesn't stop me getting laid (my girlfriend is 5'6", and I've also been with a girl who was 5'8"). People will tease you about it, just laugh it off, it'sno big deal. Sure it will put some girls off and taller guys have a bit of an advantage, but still just stop letting it bother you or you'll lose a lot more.

Yeah get this alpha crap out of your head. Yes Tom Cruise has some great alpha traits and great body lanquage and is a good natural but he is also very good looking, very charming and is a very rich and famous movie star. He is also kind of fruitloop too but the guy gets a lot of hot ass.

Anyway, if you concentrate on "alpha" too much you'll end up looking like someone with a Napolian syndrome and it will hurt you a lot more than help you.

Some chicks are just plain and simple blow you out of the water for not being over 6' tall no matter what you do so don't blow a gasket over them.

Spend your time and energies on fitness, grooming, dressing your best and being sociable and charming. Confidence and actually trying to engage and develop a personal rapport with people will carry a lot more weight than acting like some kind of Napolian.

When guys try to AMOG you and make fun of you, have some quick and stinging come-backs and they'll drop it quick and showing that you are comfortable with yourself and not taking shit off people is a DHV.

Flirt and charm every single gal you find attractive and just by law of averages you will hit one out of the ball park periodically just like the rest of us.

Looks can't screw you up 100%. You ALWAYS have a chance. I'm far away from being best looking guy ever, but I've bunch of girls chasing after me(even though some of them have bfs-but I don't fuck with girls in relationships...maybe when they get out of them, but that's not the point)

Couple of examples.

I'm 5,8. My dad is 5,8 too. When he was in college he had a gf who was on university voleyball team(very tall).

Another example: Mystery's show(I don't remember the name but it was on vh1 I believe) The indian guy approached the girl, and when they interviewed her she said that he is really not her type(and I doubt somebody's) but he got the number and left with a good impression about himself.

Napoleon Bonaparte. Ultra world-bestriding Alpha Conqueror. Short man.

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Being short is a clear handicap for men, but, as someone said before, you could have some lines prepared for this kind of attacks, seem confident and turn it all into DHV.

Some I can think of are:

- Tell a story about some short girls hitting on you just because you're shorter than average men, with whom they felt uncomfortable (obviously just drop it, dont make an obvious bluff)

- Much more comfortable for having sex in the shower (optional: invent funny story about making out with some really tall chick in the shower)

- If you can do it without looking really gross, make fun of the "L" rule. I dont know if you will know this, so I'll try to explain it:

Try to make an "L" with your index and thumb. Imagine that one of them is a guy's head and the other is a guy's "head". Change the positions of the fingers, so what used to be the dick is now the head.

It comes to say that tall guys have smaller penises, and shorter guys have it huge. Not the smartest humour, but could be useful if you make it fine!

Hope it helps

Sorry, but this sounds weird, don't do this. The last one you said can be funny though, throw in a little bit of sexual innuendo - "wow you're really short!" "I know, I make up for my lack of height in other areas... ".