Hi all.

I'm 38 and started reading about this stuff a year or so ago. I've suffered from a lack of confidence most my life I guess and trying to get over it.

Just decided to get on the forum as it's time I start getting feedback from people who relate and want to share.

I live in a small town where I am (about 10,000) and am wondering if there is such a thing as small town game. It feels like around here you have to make it count a little more and so it makes "practice" kind of tricky. It's much more the case around here that everyone kind of knows each other so it's a bit less anonymous than gaming in the city.

I have a few interests in my life and want to get things going in the right way most likely to build attraction, etc.

I'll be back but I'll leave it at that for now. peace.

so there's this girl i'm interested in that i already know so the whole approach thing is basically over. she's a friend of a friend.

we're friends on facebook now. we had lunch a couple weeks ago.. then a few nights later went to the same event and hung out some in a group after but barely spoke.

a couple days after that i asked her out for a morning snowboard to which she basically replied a bit too much too soon.. so now i'm a but stumped as to the best way to handle it. have i blown it already?

is this a place to talk about stuff like this?