UPDATE
Her:Haha that's good news
Me:Today at 7 30 I'm going to watch bunch of performances(including breadance) Come with me, gonna be a lot of fun
then 1 hour before performance
Me: Do you ever check your phone?;)
Her:Oh I'm sorry i'm working now and it ends at 9. Invite me next time plz.
Me after the performance: You just missed a performance of a lifetime;)
Now notice, she had large time gaps between messages.
I also think that work is a BS, although it might be she's telling the truth.
WHERE DID I GO WRONG?
Anyways I went to performance, and sat near a 2 set hb9 and hb7,5. I was sitting near hb 7,5 so I numberclosed her

Then I went to a starbuck's and brightened up the cashiers mood(she seemed kinda intereseted lol) While waiting for my coffee I saw an hb8 with a nice ass going to another part of the store. I went there after her, I saw her sitting and talking on the phone without even a coffee so I sat by another hb8 with a very cute face. She was with a guy, so at first I wasn't going to approach(and when we exchanged smiles guy gave me who the fuck is my girl looking at face). Then after drinking half of my coffee, I noticed that I was getting into the situation which I've been in bunch of time since my last one-itis. I don't feel AA or something but I DON"T APPROACH FOR SOME REASON. So I brought my shit together and approached. Made friends with a guy, found out that they're in a relationship(2 months) Guy seemed to like me a lot and enjoyed the convo very much, girl seemed somewhat interested, so I tried to number close(but first I had to give my number to the guy so it doesn't look awkward-that's the type of thing I do when I can't isolate and there is a mixed set) After guy wrote down his number, I tried to number close the girl and she replied"you can call him and he'll bring me type of thing) Anyways I think day didn't end too badly after all.
Waiting for your opinions, critiques and corrections.