Hello everyone!

A damn light went off in my head a month ago when my buddy showed me Strauss's The Game. That was it, I'm hooked! I recently got out of a 4 year relationship with a girl (she was a damn 10 when I met her but that's not why we broke up). After 4 years I realized how rusty my game had become. I'm 30 years old with plenty of experience. I've got a great approach personality, I've got style, I'm in good shape and not bad looking . Needless to say I've got a huge ego and I'm confident I can achieve anything I put my mind to. I've got an arm like a rocket, the brain of a f'ing scientist and a cock like a Burmese python (-Kenny Powers).

I bartended for a while so I rarely get approach anxiety unless I'm approaching HB9s in 10s. I stopped keeping track of "my score" at around girl #25 or 30. I'm trying to change my mindset, refine my taste so to speak. I can pull HB7-8s all day everyday but when I get a 9 I cling to her like grim death!

Forgive me for not mentioning where I'm from. I would like to maintain a certain level of anonymity. A month ago I began "structured" pick up. "Structured" meaning reading about pick up instead of winging it. I found canned opinion openers to be helpful to get my confidence level back up. Currently, I'm studying Mystery Method and it is really putting things into perspective. Like I said earlier, I have no problem shooting the shit with people so I feel I'm making huge gains in the short month I've been reading this stuff.

Hobbies/passions; I love Crossfit! If you don't know what it is then look it up! It will change your life. Crossfit has opened other doors for me as well (i.e. I'm way more active now and thinking about getting back on the mat doing BJJ or MMA). I like to go trail running, hiking, climbing, camping. I love to work with my hands artistically (i.e. painting, sculpting, etc.).

Goals; I want to meet my dream girl! This may be shallow but I want to be able to hook up with 10s to see if I can make a connection there too. Basically, I feel my current game limits the fish in my sea to those HB8s and lower. I want to be able to have the pick of the litter if I'm so inclined.

Well, that's it! Thanks for reading.

My serious advice, dont read pua stuff. looks like u r a pretty good natural. when naturals learn structured game, it actually destroys them. its happened before. its like trying to add a 1st floor to a building already built 10 floors. u r probably good than most puas out there and 99% of guys here..ur major sticking point is with 10s. all u gotta do is apply ur mindset with 7s and 8s to 10s. u dont have to take my advice, but if u find urself going down, just remember this post. cheers

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I appreciate that brother! However, since I've applied some of this stuff I've gotten really good results. I really like learning about body language, tonality, IOIs, it's stuff I feel I already know yet could never put my finger on it. Now that I'm aware, I feel I can actually approach just about anyone. I have many sticking points (I'll get to them at some point)! Not just a fear of 10s.

Allow me to revise something though, I can pull 6 - 7s all day. I have to work decent game for an 8. Occasionally a 9 will fall ass backwards into my lap somehow and I'll have no clue how it happened. I've never had a "true" 10. I reserve that for models and such.

Thanks for your reply

-Engineer