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| EddieFews | PostPosted: Fri Jan 21, 2011 12:28 am | |
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Website: http://WWW.LoveIsTheVerb.com
Location: NYC | | Are you guys really breaking up over email?
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| Nyseto | PostPosted: Fri Jan 21, 2011 12:34 am | |
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Joined: Wed Aug 11, 2010 9:07 pm
Posts: 362 | | We've already been broken up since I left her :/
Definitely taking your advice now, not responding and done trying. I see it clearly now. By not responding back to when she said bye to me, I leave her suspended in air and she will live with that "Bye".
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| mobrinks | PostPosted: Fri Jan 21, 2011 12:36 am | |
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Website: http://www.themanover.com
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| Nyseto | PostPosted: Fri Jan 21, 2011 12:41 am | |
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Joined: Wed Aug 11, 2010 9:07 pm
Posts: 362 | Quote: No contact.
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| AGDubz | PostPosted: Fri Jan 21, 2011 4:55 am | |
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Joined: Sun Oct 17, 2010 7:24 pm
Posts: 110 | | 18 messages!?!?!?
Man, i try not to ever send 2 in a row, i feel like a loser occasionally sending 3.
BUT 18!?!?!??!? Dude, she's gotta think you're nuts!
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| bvanevery | PostPosted: Fri Jan 21, 2011 5:41 am | |
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Location: Winston-Salem, NC | | The relationship you describe sounds like Codependency. I would provide a link to the Wikipedia page on that, but I haven't made enough posts yet to be allowed to do that. You really need to read it. You should break up with this woman, stay broken up, do not contact her, and do not "avoid her to get her to come back to you." You should DROP HER ENTIRELY and MOVE ON. Moreover, you should try to understand why you were codependent, and not sign yourself up for the same kind of relationship in the future. If you don't recognize why you're getting into this kind of relationship, then you're going to do it again.
What you're describing is material for a talk show, where Oprah finally tells you to "respect yourself" and move on. Just as we respect ourselves by saying we can have whatever HB we want, we have to respect ourselves by saying there's some kind of emotional baggage that we simply won't put up with.
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