Go back and take a look at:
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In all three examples, you were not able to achieve either of the 2 objectives. There are thousands of different ways to achieve these objectives but for now, just use the examples that I offered in that post or write up a few scripts for yourself. Sure, there are many ways to run game but it seems you are stuck with gaining contact info. For this, all you need are the two things mentioned in the above post and you will get most numbers out there.
To get over this hump, focus on these two objectives ONLY. Be efficient. If what you're doing or saying is not helping you achieve these objectives, do not do it. Forget about sexual escalation or a2, b3, or WD-40 steps of the 'game'. Forget about tests and hoops and raising her attraction to you. Connect now and reconnect later. Simple, simple, simple.
Interestingly, I was also on a bus a few days ago:
K: That's a super patriotic outfit you've got there. Are you a consultant? (She had tag around her neck and jacket with the US flag embroidered on the arm of her jacket)
hb: No, I work for _____. (Showing me the company's logo embroidered on the lapel) It's a blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, . .
K: (Thinking: Oh my God, I opened a talker)
hb: Blah, blah, blah, blah, non-profit, one year, blah, blah, inner city kids, blah, blah
K: Oh . . . Education major?
hb: No. Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah . . .
K: Hmm . . I minored in that and also did some non-profit work abroad after college.
hb: Really? blah, blah, blah . .
K: yeah, yeah. . .blah, blah . . So it's ____.com?
hb: No, it's _____.org. (Hands me business card)
I was only trying to kill time but I suppose these things are habitual. And I only achieved 1 of the 2 objectives because I wasn't thinking 'dates'. Do you see the hook? I studied what she studied and worked a similar gig (Not really but I made it seem that way).
She thinks she is sane and trust worthy. She studied x and worked Y. I studied X and worked Y. I must be sane and trust worthy. Something like that . . .