hey guys.. i'm a freshman in college, and wanna close my best friend, an HB7 (but to me more like a 9). Like an afc, i told her i liked her last semester, said some really nice shit, and she said something like "sometimes i like you, sometimes i don't".. I thought that was just a way of being nice, but the other night we were hanging out and i accidentally read a text she wrote to her friend saying she thinks she might hook up with me, and her friend wrote that she knows she wants to, and then told me on the phone to do it. I decided to be a tease and not hookup that night, and she has been giving me more IOI's than ever the past few days since we've been back. Texting, body language, conversations, etc...

I also haven't let myself get into the friend zone by flirting constantly, DHVing, making sexual comments, and doing some other stuff.

Tomorrow, my college goes to a club- i usually hookup with a lota girls, but she invited me to go with her tomorrow and if she sees me with other girls (knows im more than capable) she might give up on me since i told her i was over a day after she rejected me.

Any ideas on how i should handle this?

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I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.

- Michael Jordan

Sounds like you're pretty much in. All you have to do is not kiss close another girl while she's watching? How is that even a real problem? Do you have no self control? Is this girl not worth one night of not hooking up with a stranger?

When you say you "accidentally" read a text she sent to a friend, do you actually mean you snooped through her phone like a filthy ass privacy invading piece of human shit?

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31 and still figuring it out.

As much as I want to tell you that having a female best friend is the best thing in the world and I would never hook up with mine to ruin that, I think you're in if she INVITED you to go with her.

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"I want to stand as close to the edge as I can without going over. Out on the edge you see all the kinds of things you can't see from the center."

"I'm going to give you a definite... maybe."

I dont understand how you call her your best friend. but your not in the friend zone :S

Thank you for that.