These are the 10 affirmations from Hoobie (RSD)
Pretty much helping me out with myself & the conflicts I have.
I wrote them down on a poster & hanged it up the wall.. Now I'm saying it 10 times a day.. to make sure I don't forget them! Maybe.. it can help you as much as it helps me.

1. I am PROUD of MY DESIRES as a man.
2. I move through the world WITHOUT apology.
3. I was made to SATISFY women.
4. I DON'T NEED any partical woman.
5. Woman are ABUNDANT.
6. Do NOT dwell on the past.. The past CANNOT be relived. Good or BAD.
7. Rejection is a GREAT thing. THE MORE I get rejected.. THE MORE I get laid.
8. There are NO mistakes and NO failures, ONLY experience AND growth.
9. EVERY rejection is a brick in MY PALACE.
10. I can control how I interact with people -- the choice IS MINE !

Here you go.

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All very good, thanks.

Number 4 is my favorite and perhaps the most important.

You are the shit, and do not need any woman.

You ever notice that people who suffer from chronic constipation also often experience spells of diarrhea? I take every medical issue seriously but boy, if there ever is a humorous illness, this is it. Poopie jokes never go out of style and the irony of rock hard crap barely making an appearance out of the poop hole one day to the cornucopia of watery ooze spraying down the bowl the next is just plain funny. Especially the sounds . . . the sounds are funny. The grunts, the plop, the swoosh and trumpet, and again, the swoosh, and trumpet. And you really gotta love the guy who announces the swoosh and the trumpet prior to actually swooshing and trumpet-ing. . . You know the guy. You're about to dig into a fat piece of steak and he goes, "Oh dude! Here I go, this is gonna be bad. Shit, I think I squirt some already! Ohhhh Duuuude . . ." - This right here is the gold standard in medical issue humor.

yeah well, Kasabi, does it look like I give a damn? I posted this topic because it helped me and to help others. I don't give a damn about what you think about it - you're far advanced to be needing this "crap" but others maybe it would help you sometimes.. no disrepect mate.

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^^I like this. It's good to have a mantra to recite everyday to remind myself why I'm God isn't it?


However, let's imagine I just said those points over and over to myself everyday without ever ACTIONING. I guess this is what I would come to after a year...


1. I am PROUD of MY DESIRES as a man - I spend more of my time watching internet porn.
2. I move through the world WITHOUT apology- I try to be a douche, sometimes I piss off people who are trying to be nice, I now have little or no friends to rely on.
3. I was made to SATISFY women - but on Saturday nights all I am doing is satisfying myself.
4. I DON'T NEED any partical woman - No, but one, just one would be nice.
5. Woman are ABUNDANT - Yes they are, why can't I even get one?
6. Do NOT dwell on the past.. The past CANNOT be relived. Good or BAD - True but on Xmas, New Year's and Valentine's what do I end up thinking about...Her.
7. Rejection is a GREAT thing. THE MORE I get rejected.. THE MORE I get laid - I've been rejected so many times, doing the same things over and over again. I still haven't got laid as much as I'd like.
8. There are NO mistakes and NO failures, ONLY experience AND growth - Every failure I have I pretend never happened, and I continue to do the same thing with every girl I meet.
9. EVERY rejection is a brick in MY PALACE - And my palace reaches to the stars.
10. I can control how I interact with people -- the choice IS MINE ! - It sure is, and I'm a still a wuss with zero confidence around women.

Now let's try and build some substance into that list, because ... well... that list is actually very good.

I'll start off...

1. I am PROUD of MY DESIRES as a man - Every woman I meet I will hold eye contact with and try to flirt with her. If work and play doesn't afford me these opportunities to meet these women then I will make these opportunities by going out at least twice a week.

2. I move through the world WITHOUT apology. - I used to apologise for being a pussy. I used to apologise for not making moves on women I liked. I used to apologise for her rejecting me. Then I went to behaving like an asshole and blaming it all on the girl because I'm not going to apologise for her rejecting me but I was STILL acting like a pussy anyway. Then I realised moving through the world WITHOUT apology means actually taking the risk to kiss the girl and not apologising for turning her on.

...

You continue...

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I like this. This is the comedian who tells his audience to go fuck themselves when they're not amused by his routine. The "no disrespect" is key because you know . . . no self respecting fan of comedy wants to be disrespected. Just where did you find these comic geniuses? This is heart wrenching.

Your affirmations seem to be working exactly as it should.

Pretty immature response...

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Do I look like I give a damn you jack off? You won't be getting any apologies from me. Plus, even though I don't need a "partical" woman, I was made to satisfy women, not some low iq'd pua wannabe's. No disrespect to you and your band of comedians.

Sigh* Look -

Hobbit - I get what you are saying and what you mean with it. I'm just sharing, i'm still growing, don't be a douche about it.

Kasabi - Are you that freaking amazing that you feel good about it downsiding people? Seriously sorry man, no disrespect is meant that I respect you because your keeping this forum alive ..
but posting this kind of response rather states that you are the comedian/childish one instead of me.

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u mad, bro?

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He's being ironic.

His first post was an analogy of the people who use affirmations, and that even the speaker doesn't believe it most of the time (You don't need to take my, hobbit or kasabis word on affirmations being shit, it's a proven fact that they don't work, in fact there is evidence to suggest that they do quite the opposite). -> http://www.google.co.uk/#hl=en&biw=1276 ... 7edd0cfc48

The O.P. then actively demonstrated one of the things which kasabi was pointing out by re-acting in the stereotypical and expected fashion of a trendy inner gamer.

You then arrived and called kasabi immature.

Kasabi responds in the same laughably cliched passive aggressive insecure manner that had demonstrated his point in the first place.

Simples.

No argument on the affirmations, Im not a believer in them myself. But hey, if they worked from him, even as a placebo, more power to him.

Second, his response, no matter how you would like to frame it, was immature. If he did not agree with affirmations, or had something better to suggest, he should have said so. His response was in no way productive to helping out LD.

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Well, fin let the cat out of the bag so there's no choice but to logically address some issues:

1. Inducing diarrhea is not a cure for constipation; it's a messy form of temporary relief.

2. An attempt to reverse an unhealthy pattern by arbitrarily choosing what you think is the OPPOSITE of that unhealthy pattern is not a path towards correction. Example: Sticking Post-Its with "Rejection is a GREAT THING" all over your room is just another charade. Rejection isn't a terrible thing and it's not a great thing. Rejection is simply that, one person telling you that they are not into you. (Not such a catchy phrase is it?)

3. The reason these 'phrases' need to be repeated day after day after day is that it's not real. No matter how often you repeat 2+3=7, you will NEVER make 2+3=7.

4. Those who teach this crap are a bunch of low life predators of the lost. Is it so difficult to stick to comic routines? Isn't "Do I look like a drug dealer?" funny enough? If they want to shift from their main thing, why not home improvement or bicycle maintenance? How about selling fruit juicers? LOL . . . These guys are like a bunch of donkeys trying teach physics.

On being 'productive':

1. Logical questions/posts match well with a logical replies. A poster asks, "I am doing x,y, and z but the results I seek are 1,2, and 3. How can I tweak? I LOVE these posts. Simple, logical issues . . . simple, logical answers.

2. The initial post in this thread is an ILLOGICAL message. By this, I mean that the post is driven by emotions rather than logic. One does not repeat UNTRUE statements over and over to himself because it's logical. Rather, he does it to smother logic with an overabundance of emotions. An emotional switch turned him on to idiocy and only an emotional switch can create equilibrium. A cocaine addict knows LOGICALLY that this shit is killing his life. A D- student knows that if he does his homework once in a while, he could become a C+ student. Knowledge does not equal change.

3. There are a bunch of different ways that behaviors can be modified. Within the confinements of an internet forum, humiliation and public acknowledgment of idiocy (emotional triggers) are probably the best tools for changing illogical behavior. (My opinion only. If you eggheads have any better ideas, please share)

4. The initial post isn't an attempt to help others, it's a mission to AFFIRM his new set of illogical habits.

5. By now, it's pretty clear that neither wm or ld have the comprehension skills, sense of humor or a fucking sense of humility to understand what's going on here. My God . . ."No, no . . .it is you who is the childish one! You!! Everything bounces of me and sticks to you! I know you are what am I???!?! . . .I just want to share this with you!?! Really! I don't give a damn what you think though!!~~~" - Christ, who did this to you kids? My 14 year old nephew could figure this shit out. . .

At best, I hope others who are reading can detect and avoid the habitual patterns that lead to misery to themselves and others around them. Pick up is not a war; it's a simple chat with a cute girl.

I'm sorry baby, did I really get under your skin THAT much?

*hugs*

All better now hun.

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Unfortunate.