So I know this girl in California (I live in Virginia), we've been talking since October. We hooked up in December (I was visiting California) and we still talk via facebook, SPAM, and texting every single day. We're not dating, neither one of us does long distance. However, shes moving over here this summer and we both know we're going to end up dating, it's inevitable. I still hook up with girls, I have a goal of a different one per week and for the most part I achieve that goal.

This girl knows that I hang out with other girls but I don't really give the impression that I'm hooking up with them. She says stuff like "you're going to have to get laid sooner or later" or "get that nut" etc. etc. you all know. I kind of just brush it off but how do I respond to that? She knows my past of being a player and hooking up with several women but considering right now it doesn't seem like that I don't want to seem less desirable and display lower value. At the same time considering I am looking forward to dating her I don't want to go on about how I just hooked up with all this girls.

If it were any other girl I wouldn't care at all but I actually like this girl, we've all been there. This is a girl I'll actually be faithful to, and I'm sure like many of you, that's saying a lot.

Don't do this.

ESPECIALLY if you actually really like her.

As for your current dating situation, if you're making it clear that you're seeing other girls then she has to be RETARDED to not get what's going on. There's no real need to spell it out, but I personally NEVER lie to women, so if she were to ask I'd tell her.

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I prefer the term "in denial"

even a retard would be on point here!

I agree with blondguy though, give it a bit of time between contact, make her miss you... You don't want this to fizz out by the time she does move closer

You both make very balid points. I never even thought to make her miss me. I do it all the time with every other girl. I guess the fact that I actually like her has taken away from my game. Thank you for that.

As far as my initial problem, denial may be it. Maybe that's why she hasn't asked directly and is perhaps masking her true self by saying "you need to get laid sooner or later" and etc. Regardless of that if she does ever ask directly I would tell her.

I appreciate the advice.